TheSnake
Well-Known Member
Note, I am a white male, late twenties.
It has came across my mind more than a few times, just by studying others behavior. It seems to me, on average, we have the following...
Black men : Seem to act alpha in public, especially when joined by friends.
Black women : Seem to act not only alpha in public, but also like they are somehow owed special treatment for something that simply escapes me.
White men : Seem to avoid eye contact with groups of black men, if among other whites seem the same as Black men.
White women : Are scared shit-less of pretty much everything.
WHY? I was at the casino last night, fucked up... Two black guys i sparked a convo up, and was being my usual insulting self on accident. One seemed like he didn't even want me to be speaking to the pair, the other was pretty receptive. I forget what the conversation was about, but at one point, the one guy seemed to literally hate my aura so much, he was basically staring me down, to which I started laughing uncontrollably and they both seemed to be drawn by my laughter and to what it was i found so amusing. I said something along the lines of "This guy fucking wants to stab me, or some shit" while pointing to the unhappy party while simply trying to speak between laughs. Then I followed with "what the fuck did i do to you, do i annoy you, you want me dead? Kill me then, see if i give a fuck" all pretty much in a joking manner but still kinda serious and his attitude turned from hating or annoyance, instantly to basically wanting to just get away from me. It's almost as if my alcohol induced stuper / psychotic episode of total un-coothness and lack of any care towards human life, let alone my own. Also being outnumbered, etc It's like it made the guy think "this mother fucker is bat shit crazy, get away from him, hes a threat." All while I was having normal drunk talk with his friend who was pretty damn cool.
This made me wonder, If a white man is outspoken, confident, and otherwise extremely alpha in any situation and not afraid to call a black person out on something, does this make the black "man" or woman retract from the situation thinking the white "person" must be crazy or something?
Also note, one of my longest term friends is black, does not talk in slang or act like a "gang banger, or ghetto", I don't have anything really against blacks, hell i hate enough whites to be an anti-race to myself. But I do find Ebonics speaking, gangbang-looking/acting, and overall ghetto vibed blacks to be undesirable. This goes the same for whites I might add. Also have fought both white and black men in the past, been knocked out by both lol.
Can someone more knowledgeable please explain the psychology behind this stuff?
It has came across my mind more than a few times, just by studying others behavior. It seems to me, on average, we have the following...
Black men : Seem to act alpha in public, especially when joined by friends.
Black women : Seem to act not only alpha in public, but also like they are somehow owed special treatment for something that simply escapes me.
White men : Seem to avoid eye contact with groups of black men, if among other whites seem the same as Black men.
White women : Are scared shit-less of pretty much everything.
WHY? I was at the casino last night, fucked up... Two black guys i sparked a convo up, and was being my usual insulting self on accident. One seemed like he didn't even want me to be speaking to the pair, the other was pretty receptive. I forget what the conversation was about, but at one point, the one guy seemed to literally hate my aura so much, he was basically staring me down, to which I started laughing uncontrollably and they both seemed to be drawn by my laughter and to what it was i found so amusing. I said something along the lines of "This guy fucking wants to stab me, or some shit" while pointing to the unhappy party while simply trying to speak between laughs. Then I followed with "what the fuck did i do to you, do i annoy you, you want me dead? Kill me then, see if i give a fuck" all pretty much in a joking manner but still kinda serious and his attitude turned from hating or annoyance, instantly to basically wanting to just get away from me. It's almost as if my alcohol induced stuper / psychotic episode of total un-coothness and lack of any care towards human life, let alone my own. Also being outnumbered, etc It's like it made the guy think "this mother fucker is bat shit crazy, get away from him, hes a threat." All while I was having normal drunk talk with his friend who was pretty damn cool.
This made me wonder, If a white man is outspoken, confident, and otherwise extremely alpha in any situation and not afraid to call a black person out on something, does this make the black "man" or woman retract from the situation thinking the white "person" must be crazy or something?
Also note, one of my longest term friends is black, does not talk in slang or act like a "gang banger, or ghetto", I don't have anything really against blacks, hell i hate enough whites to be an anti-race to myself. But I do find Ebonics speaking, gangbang-looking/acting, and overall ghetto vibed blacks to be undesirable. This goes the same for whites I might add. Also have fought both white and black men in the past, been knocked out by both lol.
Can someone more knowledgeable please explain the psychology behind this stuff?
