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ODanksta

ODanksta

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sunni said:
I Havent deleted any threads recently by anyone, there are other moderators but go on and single me out and trash my name

do i think it was responsible of you to go drinking after you just came out of rehab no, but thats a personal opinion not a moderating one.
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It's like this, I've always thought you were a super cool chic. If I ever had a problem I always came to you, but recently some of comments have offended me. Sorry for this thread, but I felt it needed to be said. But understand there are others in the community that feel the same as I do. So instead of taking it as a personal attack take it as positive criticism.

And fucking bring back Dyna!
 
sunni

sunni

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ODanksta said:
It's like this, I've always thought you were a super cool chic. If I ever had a problem I always came to you, but recently some of comments have offended me. Sorry for this thread, but I felt it needed to be said. But understand there are others in the community that feel the same as I do. So instead of taking it as a personal attack take it as positive criticism.

And fucking bring back Dyna!
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So you personally attack me in a thread because you're upset you had a thread deleted over a month ago ?
Blamed me for it when I wasn't the one to do it
I always chime up and speak up if I delete something when asked

theres constructive Criticism than there's blatant personal attacking you called me self righteous because I don't eat meat


And just for the record I never banned Dyna I wasn't even online when it happened I was on vacation


You people like to point blame on me 9/10 times I wasn't the one to do things I'm blamed for
I get out as the easy target to shit on in Riu every time
And that's just fine been here since 08 I'm sure I will be going no where guess people will just have to get used to it ;)
 
ODanksta

ODanksta

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sunni said:
So you personally attack me in a thread because you're upset you had a thread deleted over a month ago ?
Blamed me for it when I wasn't the one to do it
I always chime up and speak up if I delete something when asked

theres constructive Criticism than there's blatant personal attacking you called me self righteous because I don't eat meat


And just for the record I never banned Dyna I wasn't even online when it happened I was on vacation


You people like to point blame on me 9/10 times I wasn't the one to do things I'm blamed for
I get out as the easy target to shit on in Riu every time
And that's just fine been here since 08 I'm sure I will be going no where guess people will just have to get used to it ;)
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There are a couple threads that I have had deleted that were perfectly within the rules, and I know you didn't ban dyna, actually I know you liked dyna as did the rest of us. But you have made some comments that did highly offend me, but I was more offended because you are suppose to a leader here. And your comments hit me a little harder then it would have, if been said by a regular member. Maybe because I use to look up to you. But when I got out of detox I did indeed stay alcohol for 3 months and still haven't drank hard liquor. But the way way you commented when I slipped up and admitted I drank a couple of beers is what really fucked me up in the head.

But regardless I wish I didn't even start this thread. But other members do agree with me, so all I'm saying if someone is suffering from a addiction, (which you know all to well). Don't kick them when they down.

So all in all I regret starting this thread, I am sorry for personally attacking if that is how it came off. We each have our personalities, sorry that I expect more from you.
 
sunni

sunni

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I don't think you're upset with me or my comments

You're upset with yourselF
I never said anything truly terrible to you
I told you I was disappointed in you
And I am I'm not disappointed you relapsed I'm disappointed you don't see it as a problem
You can't convince me any different that because you drank some beer after rehab that it didn't matter



Never the less I'm sorry I offended you
But I won't sugar coat it like everyone else here
You have an addiction you relapsed and instead of seeing it as an accident you see it as "responsible drinking " which is exacltly textbook denial alcoholism


Good luck in your future

and by the way i dont run this site, i follow the rules given to me,theres no reason to blame me for doing a job ,
and YES it was a personal attack you said and i quote
ODanksta said:
t's kinda of shitty how one self righteous moderator can stray away good members and I am not the only one.
Hint hint I am a bad person to this mod because I eat this.
I got clean and sober for months, then decided to drink responsible and she threw it my face..
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thats clearly a personal attack towards me.
 
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ODanksta

ODanksta

Well-Known Member
sunni said:
I don't think you're upset with me or my comments

You're upset with yourselF
I never said anything truly terrible to you
I told you I was disappointed in you
And I am I'm not disappointed you relapsed I'm disappointed you don't see it as a problem
You can't convince me any different that because you drank some beer after rehab that it didn't matter



Never the less I'm sorry I offended you
But I won't sugar coat it like everyone else here
You have an addiction you relapsed and instead of seeing it as an accident you see it as "responsible drinking " which is exacltly textbook denial alcoholism


Good luck in your future

and by the way i dont run this site, i follow the rules given to me,theres no reason to blame me for doing a job ,
and YES it was a personal attack you said and i quote

thats clearly a personal attack towards me.
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Well delete it then please.. or close the thread
 
Kind Sir

Kind Sir

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ODanksta said:
There are a couple threads that I have had deleted that were perfectly within the rules, and I know you didn't ban dyna, actually I know you liked dyna as did the rest of us. But you have made some comments that did highly offend me, but I was more offended because you are suppose to a leader here. And your comments hit me a little harder then it would have, if been said by a regular member. Maybe because I use to look up to you. But when I got out of detox I did indeed stay alcohol for 3 months and still haven't drank hard liquor. But the way way you commented when I slipped up and admitted I drank a couple of beers is what really fucked me up in the head.

But regardless I wish I didn't even start this thread. But other members do agree with me, so all I'm saying if someone is suffering from a addiction, (which you know all to well). Don't kick them when they down.

So all in all I regret starting this thread, I am sorry for personally attacking if that is how it came off. We each have our personalities, sorry that I expect more from you.
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I never knew you had an addiction, never saw that. My mom passed away from alcohol before I turned 18. I understand how hard it is, I live in the liquor state and have had an addiction to opiates. I totally understand how it is a touchy subject and one must tred lightly if speaking about it.

I am not talking about anything to do with this thread.
Btw, it is good of you to tell someone you bad a slipup. Theres a diff between a slipup and full blown relapse.. PM me if you ever need to.
 
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