TWS

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At least I didn't fall of a cliff...

I only do selfies if it's somewhere worth remembering that I went.
No prob. My wife loves selfies . Ahh selfies.

Ps . I admire your courage and doing the right thing and on track to a better future.
I was raised in a couple of a abusive marriages. It was very scary as a kid . It took my mom a long time to finally leave..

May your future be bright and rewarding.Give those kids a big hug :hug:
 

MjMama

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No prob. My wife loves selfies . Ahh selfies.

Ps . I admire your courage and doing the right thing and on track to a better future.
I was raised in a couple of a abusive marriages. It was very scary as a kid . It took my mom a long time to finally leave..

May your future be bright and rewarding.Give those kids a big hug :hug:
Thanks. It was really hard to get to the point I was ready to leave, but now I would never look back. You're too sweet. ❤
 

MjMama

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Some of you might have caught the glares he would sneak my way at the BBQ this spring. And that was pretty much his best behavior. He was so jealous. I can't wait for the BBQ this fall/winter.
 

ruby fruit

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Some of you might have caught the glares he would sneak my way at the BBQ this spring. And that was pretty much his best behavior. He was so jealous. I can't wait for the BBQ this fall/winter.
A strong man isnt a jealous one its one who never lets his family be boxed in and lets their minds be in a happy place 24/7
I grew up watching my dad beat on my mum...its why i havnt spoken to him for 34 yrs
 

MjMama

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A strong man isnt a jealous one its one who never lets his family be boxed in and lets their minds be in a happy place 24/7
I grew up watching my dad beat on my mum...its why i havnt spoken to him for 34 yrs
I'm sorry you had to watch that. I used to try to convince myself it wasn't effecting the kids. I tried not to fight in front of them but as things got worse that didn't work and they saw more and more. He started trying to fill their heads with lies and would literally tell them I was dating other guys. I wasn't. I took the kids camping just me and the girls and he insisted I was going to meet up with some other guy. Like I would do something like that in front of my kids. I couldn't even go to the grocery store without him thinking I stopped to have a quickie on the way. Anything to convince himself that I was a bad person so he wouldn't feel as guilty for the stuff he turned out to be doing behind my back. In the end another woman can forward and put him on blast for trying to screw her in her sleep. I can't even begin to explain how disgusted I am with him. Mostly I'm sad that I can't trust him anymore even on a basic level. I can't trust him as a father. If he would do that to anyone woman, I can't trust him with our girls.
 

Vnsmkr

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My father never hit mum that I saw or knew of but he was verbally abusive from the time I can remember, bad vodka alcoholic for years. My first memory of me getting angry at him was when I was about 5 and he woke me up screaming at mum because he was shitfaced and she was pouring his vodka down the sink. I remember wanting to fuck him up from an early age and once I moved out at 17 we didnt speak for years (again we are not speaking for few years now). Kids shouldnt be around any sort of abuse as they remember it all.
 
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