Say what you just said to a 90 year old. How well does it resonate with them?
So, your situation is typical? Hubby is healthy and you haven't had your stroke due to obesity yet. You know, you should lose some weight. It's foolish to be obese. Where is your willpower? It's foolish to be fat and you should not be adding to my cost of medical coverage because of your poor choices.
But I digress. You are what? 32 or thereabouts? Are you lecturing the 55 and older crowd, telling them that they can dig themselves out of their poverty? Disabled, kids -- 40% living in poverty -- elderly, all can benefit from the example of a couple of 30 somethings? Median personal income is about 35,000 in the US. How do they to provide food, shelter, clothing, utilities, save for kids college, save for retirement and pay the median family cost of medical insurance, which runs about $15k per year?
Don't try to deflect into a discussion on health care coverage. That's covered elsewhere. I stated the very real cost of coverage today that companies pay for their employees and their families. It's reality. I agree that it should be lower but it's not.