A Website for Married Dating and Affairs...

[Seamaiden]

Some people deserve being lied to. My ex-boyfriend, down there in San Diego, as a matter of fact. He'll fuck anything with a hole in it.

 

[Gryphonn]

Married Dating & Affairs | The Ashley Madison Agency

Life is short, have an affair.

A website specifically FOR married people looking to either date because they're in an open marriage, or just out right fuck around on their mates.

What do you guys think about that? I saw a commercial for it and the idea just disgusts me honestly, but I'm not married.

So what do the married people think about it? Am I the only one who has a problem with it?

I kinda skipped through and didn't read any replies...sorry gang. Ph03nix and I have a very open relationship. We openly don't have any interest in having an affair or whatever
It's funny that this subject came up. Our local paper had an article on Saturday about the boom in private investigation services around here. It seems that with all the coal miners working away, their wives (or the miners themselves) are getting a bit toey for some jiggly outside the marital bed. There was an interesting quote from a marriaage counsellor that said, "if you are suspicious that your spouse is being unfaithful, your relationship already has problems".
In respect to the PI's, where partners suspected their spouses of cheating, there was a 99% confirmation rate.
I guess with this website, you might find it easier to find your cheating spouse...

Definitely not our thing

 

[jamiemichelle]

Some people deserve being lied to. My ex-boyfriend, down there in San Diego, as a matter of fact. He'll fuck anything with a hole in it.

Must be something about San Diego; lots of Man whores. But I was dating this guy when I lived in SD for about a year and truly had no clue he was bangin some chic the whole entire time! I was actually the other woman and had no clue! I really grew up after that whole experience!

 

[Seamaiden]

Oh, the stories. Last I heard from him he was in... shit.. one of those in between areas, south of El Cajon, east of La Mesa, nearby Lemon Grove/Spring Valley. MAJOR tweaker, he smoked up so much of that shit! Good God damned riddance.

 

[jamiemichelle]

Oh, the stories. Last I heard from him he was in... shit.. one of those in between areas, south of El Cajon, east of La Mesa, nearby Lemon Grove/Spring Valley. MAJOR tweaker, he smoked up so much of that shit! Good God damned riddance.

WOW isnt that a coincidence... my jerk off was in Lemon Grove...ugh.


But yes good riddance.

 

[Wikidbchofthewst]

I dont think people are throwing their families away by cheating... of course thats what we have been programmed to believe (especially women) I think when someone is cheating they are seeking something that they are not getting at home and most likely both the husband and wife know that there is a problem in the marriage and also they are unable to bring the physical attraction back.

Im not saying in all situations this will work, but there are several older men that Ive worked with and they have cheated on their wives and they had a wonderful family life and both of them were mutually happy.

Unfortunately jealousy exsists, but if it didnt I dont think so many women/men would have a problem with it.

In a perfect situation the truth is the best...but being truthful isnt gonna make you horny for that person again and at the same time you can still love and want to be with somebody (even more if there are children involved) and not be sexually attracted to them. Sex isnt the only thing that exsists when you are married but I think you know that

If your spouse KNOWS what you're doing, and is ok with it, then whatever, that's between you guys. But if you cheat on your spouse, you are cheating on your family. You are throwing away your family because if you're caught it will break your family apart. Unless, like I said, your spouse knows what you're doing and is ok with it.

But if you're lying about it, you're risking your entire family...then you're pretty much saying you're family doesn't mean as much to you as sex, or whatever it is you can't seem to get from your own partner.

There is a HUGE difference between doing something with your partners knowledge and doing something behind his/her back. And it makes ALL the difference. Someone who does something with their partner's knowledge is ok, but lying, cheating, well...that says something about that person doesn't it?

If you're in an open marriage and it's all up front, go for it.But noone deserves to be lied to.If you're going to fuck weird people, your significant other should have the choice of whether or not they want to let you play VD roulette with their genitals.My 2 cents.

EXACTLY what I mean! If you're in the type of relationship where it's ok, you guys are both aware, then why not, that's your business and if it works for you, GOOD FOR YOU!

Seriously, I'm not trying to get everyone to agree with monogomy, but can't we agree with HONESTY?

Some people deserve being lied to. My ex-boyfriend, down there in San Diego, as a matter of fact. He'll fuck anything with a hole in it.

But why should you be a liar just because he is? I mean, if you want, I agree that it's deserved, but I take pride in the fact that my word has meaning.

I'm not saying yours doesn't, but do you get what I mean? Like if someone cheats, I'm not going to go cheat as revenge. I'm not going to lower MYSELF because HE'S scum...am I making sense?

 

[jamiemichelle]

If your spouse KNOWS what you're doing, and is ok with it, then whatever, that's between you guys. But if you cheat on your spouse, you are cheating on your family. You are throwing away your family because if you're caught it will break your family apart. Unless, like I said, your spouse knows what you're doing and is ok with it.

But if you're lying about it, you're risking your entire family...then you're pretty much saying you're family doesn't mean as much to you as sex, or whatever it is you can't seem to get from your own partner.

There is a HUGE difference between doing something with your partners knowledge and doing something behind his/her back. And it makes ALL the difference. Someone who does something with their partner's knowledge is ok, but lying, cheating, well...that says something about that person doesn't it?



EXACTLY what I mean! If you're in the type of relationship where it's ok, you guys are both aware, then why not, that's your business and if it works for you, GOOD FOR YOU!

Seriously, I'm not trying to get everyone to agree with monogomy, but can't we agree with HONESTY?



But why should you be a liar just because he is? I mean, if you want, I agree that it's deserved, but I take pride in the fact that my word has meaning.

I'm not saying yours doesn't, but do you get what I mean? Like if someone cheats, I'm not going to go cheat as revenge. I'm not going to lower MYSELF because HE'S scum...am I making sense?

Just a question? Do you have a family? Have you been married?


From what I recall I dont think so. So Im not sure why you are placing all this judgement on people.

And if I recollect correctly, you have done stuff behind your partners back as well....lets think back to some of your very first posts here (now all the sudden you're all into morals). Everyone is entitled to their own opinion without being judged and saying they dont care about their family.

 

[Wikidbchofthewst]

Just a question? Do you have a family? Have you been married?


From what I recall I dont think so. So Im not sure why you are placing all this judgement on people.

And if I recollect correctly, you have done stuff behind your partners back as well....lets think back to some of your very first posts here (now all the sudden you're all into morals). Everyone is entitled to their own opinion without being judged and saying they dont care about their family.

What are you talking about? I don't HAVE a partner, don't recall ever saying I did...If you're referring to my threesome thread I suggest you go back and read it yourself before you speak on what you don't know.

And I don't have to have been married to know about this. I had MY family torn apart by someone cheating. That was enough for me, first hand experience.

I got caught in the middle of it a lot too, because I'm the favorite. So yes, I do feel like I have room to cast judgment on people who are cheating and so going to effect their kids the same way I was effected.

 

[jamiemichelle]

What are you talking about? I don't HAVE a partner, don't recall ever saying I did...If you're referring to my threesome thread I suggest you go back and read it yourself before you speak on what you don't know.

And I don't have to have been married to know about this. I had MY family torn apart by someone cheating. That was enough for me, first hand experience.

I got caught in the middle of it a lot too, because I'm the favorite. So yes, I do feel like I have room to cast judgment on people who are cheating and so going to effect their kids the same way I was effected.

No I wasnt talking about that... but Im not going to get into it. My point is, no one should judge anyone for what they choose to do in their own personal lives. Period. Sorry it hurt you that your parents cheated, but Im c'mon ... they are adults its not the childs business who they choose to screw or why they do it. Also, families are broken up everyday for all kinda reasons....and what do the people have to do? Deal with it...just like everyone else does in this world. They get over it.
Thats just my opinion.

 

[Wikidbchofthewst]

No I wasnt talking about that... but Im not going to get into it. My point is, no one should judge anyone for what they choose to do in their own personal lives. Period. Sorry it hurt you that your parents cheated, but Im c'mon ... they are adults its not the childs business who they choose to screw or why they do it. Also, families are broken up everyday for all kinda reasons....and what do the people have to do? Deal with it...just like everyone else does in this world. They get over it.
Thats just my opinion.

No, I'd really like you to get into it, since you brought it up. Where did I ever post that I was with someone and cheated on that person? I know I never posted that, so I'd really like to know where you came off with that.

It wasn't my parents. But still, the lying broke up my family.

Even if I DID fuck around on a boyfriend (which I haven't) it would not even compare to the situation we're discussing. You can't even compare two people fucking around to a MARRIED couple with a FAMILY fucking around.

 

[gogrow]

uh oh... here we go...
YouTube - Cat Fight

 

[jamiemichelle]

No, I'd really like you to get into it, since you brought it up. Where did I ever post that I was with someone and cheated on that person? I know I never posted that, so I'd really like to know where you came off with that.

It wasn't my parents. But still, the lying broke up my family.

Even if I DID fuck around on a boyfriend (which I haven't) it would not even compare to the situation we're discussing. You can't even compare two people fucking around to a MARRIED couple with a FAMILY fucking around.

Did I say you cheated? I said you have no right to judge someone because you havent lived exactly moral yourself... is that not a correct statement? And yes it was actually stuff it the threesome thread. I couldnt exactly remember the title, but I did remember that you didnt seem to come off as the most moral person in here... so it makes me question why you can judge other people yourself? Are you God or something? Just curious. Im not trying to be an asshole, I just cant stand when people judge people for decisions they make in their personal lives.

 

[jamiemichelle]

uh oh... here we go...
YouTube - Cat Fight

Nah there isnt gonna be a fight... Im stating my opinion just like she has hers. She posted something that is obviously controversial so its expected right?

 

[Wikidbchofthewst]

Did I say you cheated?.

Yes, you fucking DID

Just a question? Do you have a family? Have you been married?


From what I recall I dont think so. So Im not sure why you are placing all this judgement on people.

And if I recollect correctly, you have done stuff behind your partners back as well....lets think back to some of your very first posts here (now all the sudden you're all into morals). Everyone is entitled to their own opinion without being judged and saying they dont care about their family.

 

[gogrow]

come on; at least watch the link... its cute as hell

 

[jamiemichelle]

Yes, you fucking DID

I didnt say you cheated, I said you did stuff behind his back... I honestly cant remember exactly what it was you were complaining about but, I do remember that you werent as moral as you are trying to act, nor do you have the right to judge what a grown ass adult does in their bedroom.

 

[Wikidbchofthewst]

I didnt say you cheated, I said you did stuff behind his back... I honestly cant remember exactly what it was you were complaining about but, I do remember that you werent as moral as you are trying to act, nor do you have the right to judge what a grown ass adult does in their bedroom.

How am I trying to act moral? I have a problem with people who lie to their spouses and thereby risk their families.

How is it "acting moral" to expect others to just be HONEST?

I'm not saying I'm the best person, but at least I'm honest about it.

 

[jamiemichelle]

How am I trying to act moral? I have a problem with people who lie to their spouses and thereby risk their families.

How is it "acting moral" to expect others to just be HONEST?

I'm not saying I'm the best person, but at least I'm honest about it.

Here we go... the definition of moral.
moral adj. Of or concerned with the judgment of the goodness or badness of human action and character: moral scrutiny; a moral quandary.

 

[tipsgnob]

what???? who???

 

[Wikidbchofthewst]

Here we go... the definition of moral.
moral adj. Of or concerned with the judgment of the goodness or badness of human action and character: moral scrutiny; a moral quandary.

Ok, well if it's acting moral to expect honesty from others, then yep, I is

I give honesty, I expect it in return. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you and all that jazz