I am not opposed to governance. For instance, I try to govern my own behavior in accordance with my own principles. I try hard not to govern your behavior unless / until it intersects with my own life in such a way as to impact my rights. I don't think that is fantasyland, I think it is the best reality
there is.
I am opposed to a coercion based government, most sane people are. Government is an institution which relies on coercion, and initiatory coercion against otherwise peaceful people (people not taking others rights away). That's not an opinion, it's a fact. Like it or not.
Believing that an institution based in coercion can bring about a just world, is fantasyland. It is literally impossible, since coercion and justice are opposing concepts. It would be like cutting pieces of your dick off, to gain a few inches.
The ideal society for people can vary, I'm okay with that as long as your ideals aren't forced on others, which is what happens in the present, which is why there is so much turmoil in the world. If you want or need government, go for it, just don't think your ideals can voted onto me....I may reject them.