upnorth2505
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Sarah and PadawanBater. Thanks for your perspective. Sarah, you look hot. Heck, if I was younger and . . . Never mind. Anyway thanks!
Gay or not?
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sarah22
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thank you
i sent a +rep your way as well
i think that hating on another person for their differences is really just a way to stuff down your own insecurities. thats what i think of people who hate on anyone for their differences. i immediately wonder what is going on in that persons life to make them such a negative and judgemental individual. and i usually recommend DBT therapy (i do it in a joking way, but i really do mean it lol). i just graduated from my therapy program and a lot has changed from a year ago to now. once you learn to combat your own personal insecurities and issues, and learn to be at peace with yourself, you are able to be at peace with the rest of the world. and then other peoples decisions and other peoples lives are completely unimportant to maintaining your own happiness
Silky Shagsalot
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i keep seeing the word hate peppered around this thread. even though i'm totally against the whole gay lifestyle, i don't hate gay people. i try to stay away from that word when referring to people. you can hate what someone does, and not hate the person.
upnorth2505
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Silky, thanks for not hating. I know it is hard to understand but it is not about what someone does, but rather about what someone is. Peace
Silky Shagsalot
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i agree with you 100%!! well, except for if what you're doing is boiling kittens, or keying my car or something like that. then it doesn't matter what you do, if you are o.k. with it.Silky, thanks for not hating. I know it is hard to understand but it is not about what someone does, but rather about what someone is. Peace
if you're watching porn alone, with some strange dude, you are already gay. might as well just suck HIS dick.I was recently getting baked with a guy I have known for a few years. Not a real close friend, more of an aquentence. Anyway we were watching some porn when all of a sudden he asked me if I wanted my cock sucked. I was really horny, but I said no. He told me that I did not have to do anything, so I wouldn't be "gay". I really like women, but ever since then I have been thinking about it. I don't have anything against gays either. So should I let him suck my cock or not. I would really like to hear from some guys if this has ever happened to them.
Well, some of you may be wondering what happened this past Wednesday. That was when "Jack" (not his real name) was going to come over and suck my cock. What happened is really wierd.
Jack brought over about a quarter of shrommies and I had some AK47. We were beginning to trip pretty heavy then lit up a big dube and smoked part of it. Then it just happened. Not to sound trite, but it was like a religous expeience.
He started rubbin and messing my hair with this goofy lopsided grin on his face. I felt like I was on a different plane of conciousness. I responed by rubbing his leg then looking up and smiling. I felt kind of shy and silly. Honestly, it gets hard to remember things clearly at this point.
I am not going to give the details of what I remember, suffice to say we had sex, it was two way, but no butt sex.
It was awesome, incredible, and like doors to a new realm were being opened. I do not regret what I did and I am not ashamed.
I really can't call myself straight anymore. I am still not sure if gay is the word either. I guess I am bi. Anyway, I am glad this happened. Peace.
you are gay.
Dr. Greenhorn
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roflmao!hey ladies, if you want a good box munch, PM me.
ahahahaha!
yellowrain53
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im still trying to figure out why it matters or why anyone else would give a shit. if you want another guy to swallow your junk then go for it. more power to you. if it offends someone, they are probably closet cases. titles are stupid anyway. i happen to think that some 17 year old girls are fucking hot......so i guess that makes me a pedophile?
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PadawanBater
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Pedowin , I concur
, I concur 
yellowrain53
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hahahahaha
lostsoul420
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All i have to say is no matter where your sexual endeavours have lead you straight/gay/bi/ EVERYONE who even looked at this post or had a opinion to reply is guilty of either or
A.) Subconsciously being curious as to what was the substance within this thread was about, either because you think or have thought about these things in one point of your life.
B.) Having an experience or even thoughts about these events and wanting to see others opinions to base your own insecure feelings off so you don't seem to be out of the norm with your own thoughts.
C.) Just wanting to come into the thread and bash either side which in that case makes you a homophobe, which literally means that your affraid of being gay or having gay tendencies yourself. WOW think about that for all who want to express their hatred for gays maybe you should sit in front of a mirror.
So maybe we should take a look at ourselves. I look at human sexuality as a seasaw on one side being straight and on the other being gay, and the point that is holding the 2 together is the middle, we can say thats being bi. Let's say that the seasaw works with experience and influence through life. One may only experience sexual encounters with the opposite sex, and others with only the same sex. Some get to experience both as well which is balanced in all senses of the words meaning.
So to upnorth i think you did what a free man from societal norms would have done. I think this new found freedom came because you truely experienced a crisis when you lost everything you had and saw that the american dream is a myth, because in this oligarchy my friend they can take what's yours away in a swift move. And by seeing this you had a realization that one can only do what makes them happy in life, it's our purpose. So why not right? I understand you my friend with no judgement or hatred toward the subject i say explore the world around you while you still can. Enjoy life brotha
peace and love
A.) Subconsciously being curious as to what was the substance within this thread was about, either because you think or have thought about these things in one point of your life.
B.) Having an experience or even thoughts about these events and wanting to see others opinions to base your own insecure feelings off so you don't seem to be out of the norm with your own thoughts.
C.) Just wanting to come into the thread and bash either side which in that case makes you a homophobe, which literally means that your affraid of being gay or having gay tendencies yourself. WOW think about that for all who want to express their hatred for gays maybe you should sit in front of a mirror.
So maybe we should take a look at ourselves. I look at human sexuality as a seasaw on one side being straight and on the other being gay, and the point that is holding the 2 together is the middle, we can say thats being bi. Let's say that the seasaw works with experience and influence through life. One may only experience sexual encounters with the opposite sex, and others with only the same sex. Some get to experience both as well which is balanced in all senses of the words meaning.
So to upnorth i think you did what a free man from societal norms would have done. I think this new found freedom came because you truely experienced a crisis when you lost everything you had and saw that the american dream is a myth, because in this oligarchy my friend they can take what's yours away in a swift move. And by seeing this you had a realization that one can only do what makes them happy in life, it's our purpose. So why not right? I understand you my friend with no judgement or hatred toward the subject i say explore the world around you while you still can. Enjoy life brotha
peace and love