WTF is her f*cking problem?

[hughesresearch]

Ok, this is just me ranting and venting.

Lately my g/f has been a crazy inconsiderate bitch. she starts fight over tiny issues that as a guy, i dont even think about. like me not anwsering my phone cause im in the bathroom and she forgot her wallet at home. wtf u want me to do? or getting pissy cause i ate the last fuckin pop tart. lately shes been acting like i should wait on her hand and foot, like this morning when the cat was wining to go out, she wakes me up after 5 hrs sleep, knowing i can never fall back asleep, to attend to him. she doesnt clean a damn thing around the house and smokes up all my pot. shes always wondering what this noise and that noise is and just being retarded. we live in the same house for over a year, you know what the fucking heater kicking on sounds like. ive been with her for two years and this shit just keeps getting worse. she also has completely changed, while i, havent. when i met her she was motivated, 2 years in college, had all these friends to talk to about her passion. now, dropped out of college, constantly bitching about her job, only has 4 friends i know she talks to, and app wants to have a child. me, im enrolled in college for my machinist masters, fix cheap cars and flip them, and am a culinary assistant for a major restaurant. oh dur, i grow ganja. am i completely wrong in feeling like this?

 

[a mongo frog]

no your not wrong for thinking like this, from my expierence this is a normal relationship ( getting yelled at, she wakes up in a bad mood, whining all day every day, can u do this can u do that ). the only thing u did wrong was eat the last pop tart. she smokes so munchies r very important. id hold out on sex from u too if u ate the last pop tart, and im a dude !!!! do what i do tell her shes right, and flip her off right when she turns her back. good luck.

 

[robert 14617]

time to evaluate your relationship is this your soul mate or just someone you were fascinated by

 

[jesus of Cannabis]

got any pics?














nude?

 

[2layz2p]

Please give her five min on the computer, just to listen to her side................LOL

 

[hughesresearch]

this is kinda hard for me to do since i come from a background where people have to suck it up and deal with there own issues. i have enough problems in my own world to have to mend all hers. were just two opposite people and i think shes gettin too comfortable. im completely unhappy so currently im looking for somewhere to move.

 

[tendran]

It sounds like you turned her into a huge pot head with your ganja collection. Side note, if you reevaluate as others have suggested and determine you want to put an end to it, remember.. Bitches in love with you are PSYCHO Bitches when you break up with them. Would I be right in assuming she will also have to move in with her parents when you dump her because you pay all the bills? That's going to mean she's just this bored, upset, psycho bitch woman, that is sitting around thinking about what an asshole you are alllll day and knows you grow. You're stuck with her for life dude, I say if you want to dump her have the kid first so she won't want to see baby daddy go to jail.

 

[mygirls]

Ok, this is just me ranting and venting.

Lately my g/f has been a crazy inconsiderate bitch. she starts fight over tiny issues that as a guy, i dont even think about. like me not anwsering my phone cause im in the bathroom and she forgot her wallet at home. wtf u want me to do? or getting pissy cause i ate the last fuckin pop tart. lately shes been acting like i should wait on her hand and foot, like this morning when the cat was wining to go out, she wakes me up after 5 hrs sleep, knowing i can never fall back asleep, to attend to him. she doesnt clean a damn thing around the house and smokes up all my pot. shes always wondering what this noise and that noise is and just being retarded. we live in the same house for over a year, you know what the fucking heater kicking on sounds like. ive been with her for two years and this shit just keeps getting worse. she also has completely changed, while i, havent. when i met her she was motivated, 2 years in college, had all these friends to talk to about her passion. now, dropped out of college, constantly bitching about her job, only has 4 friends i know she talks to, and app wants to have a child. me, im enrolled in college for my machinist masters, fix cheap cars and flip them, and am a culinary assistant for a major restaurant. oh dur, i grow ganja. am i completely wrong in feeling like this?

weman pick fights so they can go do what they want. they think it justifing for what they are about to do...LOL

 

[hughesresearch]

Please give her five min on the computer, just to listen to her side................LOL

her main issue is that she wants a baby. because i do not and am thinking rationally and dont wanna raise a kid in the fucking ghetto. thats what would happen. i make 14 an hour, she makes 9. i never see what she does with her money, its just not existant app. we own 14 year old vehicles. we rent a house with another roomate. im at work/school 60+ hours a week. does this seem like it would be smart to have a baby now? after this one fight, she became like this 4 months ago. her only arguement is that 2 of her friends have babys and she wants one. was auctually whining while saying this. on top of everything, in the past month, her grandmother has died and her dad is acting funny ever since he took over power of attorney. i know she has stress in her life, but quit expecting me to wave a fuckin wand and cure all. she went to work (thank god) and would kill me for even posting this.

 

[steverthebeaver81]

It sounds like you turned her into a huge pot head with your ganja collection. Side note, if you reevaluate as others have suggested and determine you want to put an end to it, remember.. Bitches in love with you are PSYCHO Bitches when you break up with them. Would I be right in assuming she will also have to move in with her parents when you dump her because you pay all the bills? That's going to mean she's just this bored, upset, psycho bitch woman, that is sitting around thinking about what an asshole you are alllll day and knows you grow. You're stuck with her for life dude, I say if you want to dump her have the kid first so she won't want to see baby daddy go to jail.

unless shes one of them SUPER crazt broads that feels justified sendin baby daddy to jail.....

 

[a mongo frog]

It sounds like you turned her into a huge pot head with your ganja collection. Side note, if you reevaluate as others have suggested and determine you want to put an end to it, remember.. Bitches in love with you are PSYCHO Bitches when you break up with them. Would I be right in assuming she will also have to move in with her parents when you dump her because you pay all the bills? That's going to mean she's just this bored, upset, psycho bitch woman, that is sitting around thinking about what an asshole you are alllll day and knows you grow. You're stuck with her for life dude, I say if you want to dump her have the kid first so she won't want to see baby daddy go to jail.

hes right the only thing u can do now is have her taken care of, like in the mafia movies. just joking. tell her u going to quit smoking and growing and if shes a real pot head shell leave u.

 

[ChubbySoap]

Sounds like a typical woman. *shrugs*
Women are emotionally driven and have....unusual outlets, and mannerisms from a male perspective.

Suck it up, grit your teeth, and hang on for the ride....if she's actually worth it, you'll simply have to deal with it and cope...

 

[hughesresearch]

hes right the only thing u can do now is have her taken care of, like in the mafia movies. just joking. tell her u going to quit smoking and growing and if shes a real pot head shell leave u.

naw. when we met i was in the national guard and dint even smoke while enlisted. she would always have a gram sack when we went to her house and id end up taking a few hits just cause i couldnt resist. well when i got out, i started smoking like i use to. a half a week. well she kinda made it to where i started growing cause she smoked whenever i did. k, opps. but now were up to a zip a week. if i stop smoking/growing shed just buy her own. remember she has a job and only pays 1/3 utilities (about $150 a month).

 

[sebastopolian]

Wow... You needed to vent! From a woman's point of veiw (Mine) She sounds very unhappy with herself & is taking it out on you. But of course if u tell her she'll become a bitch and freak out. Sounds like she is not only treating u shitty , but her friends as well. You said she didnt finish college.. She feels like shit & a failure for not completing her goals & her self worth & esteem sounds like it needs a lot of help. She hates her job...But @ least she has one in this economic bullshit. You to need to tell her, Start out in nice way...Sit down & tell her nicely...and if that don't work say...Look bitch this is not going to work unless u change your attitude. Tell me how it goes. Goodluck

 

[peacenikchick]

Well im a chick, but not a crazy bitch, although there are plenty of crazy bitches out there. Just wanted to say that I disagree that you should suck it up and stay with her. Like if youre that unhappy its not worth it. If you have to quit growing dope for awhile cause she might go kookoo and call the po's on you, then quit growing for awhile. I just mean it's worth it if your happiness depends on it, life's a garden, dig it!

 

[hughesresearch]

Wow... You needed to vent! From a woman's point of veiw (Mine) She sounds very unhappy with herself & is taking it out on you. But of course if u tell her she'll become a bitch and freak out. Sounds like she is not only treating u shitty , but her friends as well. You said she didnt finish college.. She feels like shit & a failure for not completing her goals & her self worth & esteem sounds like it needs a lot of help. She hates her job...But @ least she has one in this economic bullshit. You to need to tell her, Start out in nice way...Sit down & tell her nicely...and if that don't work say...Look bitch this is not going to work unless u change your attitude. Tell me how it goes.
Goodluck

lol, thats easy. i already did all that and it got worse. she has no motivation to go back to school. she is a photographer but changed her major 3 years in and just decided to say fuck it. her dad is a boating photographer and thats where she got her passion. this is why im looking to move. my biggest fear is what she'll do to herself if i leave. i caught her texting sexy shit to an old friend of hers a year ago and almost left to go to my parents. well she was holding a piece of a broken mirror to her wrist in the kitchen crying a river saying whats the point of living. if i did that shit someone would baker act my ass.

 

[auldone]

Sounds like you have your head on strait as far as no kids and wanting to be in a better place when you do want kids. You are on a path to make your life better. She is only goin to hold you back, if not derail you all together. Stay the course,

My advice,

Leave her, stay single. Get YOUR life where YOU want it then, and only then, start thinking about a family.

 

[robert 14617]

threats of suicide ...she needs help get away from that train wreck before you get pulled down with her

 

[hughesresearch]

well im calmed down now. took a blunt of super lemon haze and watching these gnat largve die in my res. poor bastards. but yea, i know in the end i gonna leave, just trying to figure out how to do it without her killing herself and me being hated by all. except my roomate of course, he's heard all the fighting and keeps asking me what her deal is. i kinda feel sorry he has to deal with us.

 

[dirtsurfr]

Run, don't look back!
You can try to talk to her but if she is this bad you need to leave!
I know of alot of guys that " hung in there" and now they are the ones with problems with
the POPO and being forced to go to therapy by the court.
Thats what happens to some guys that try to Man up, they end up loosing it!