lol well here's a history lesson for you... until about 1100, marriage was CIVIL contract, no church involvement. then, bam, the catholic church takes over marriage CEREMONY. still, its a fairly modern thing to have marriages for love, not for personal gain. And just because traditionally a church administers a marriage ceremony, its still a civil/legal contract between two people. marriage is just a word, its the act that counts. church doctrine should stay out of marriage, unless the marrying couple decides upon it. get off your high horse you homophobe