What kind of guy does this? Made me wary?
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Urca
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lol what do you mean by that?Maybe your Facebook Pic Tricked Him.
RawBudzski
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thats what she said.
Urca
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lol wow... no, i was completely honest about my weight, about my body, all that jazz. so there asshole <3Maybe your Facebook Pic Tricked Him.
RawBudzski
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Aww it was a funny. Weight! Means nothing Ma. ;] Its just you know, facebook pix tell 1000 lies :O.. i personally don't do the whole facebook thingy but I find it amusing w/ everyones "Mirror" shots.
Weight! Means nothing Ma. ;] Its just you know, facebook pix tell 1000 lies :O.. i personally don't do the whole facebook thingy but I find it amusing w/ everyones "Mirror" shots. 
tip top toker
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What do you mean you were honest about your weight and body and all that jazz? Friends don't describe their physical appearance and such to each other.. People do that when they're matchmaking. So was this just two friends meeting up, except that he drove all the way out, or was it organised as potentially more than that? What's th real story? Had you even met the person before?
Urca
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no one day it just came up, and i told him up front that i was bigger. Ive made plans with guys as FRIENDS, but they backed out cause, to quote them (i dont hang out with fat bitches). Its happened more than once so I decided to forewarn him just incase that was one thing he didnt like either
beardo
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Sorry about that, didn't meen to be rude about it
chewy*barber
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He's probably got a belt of nipples in his closet.
-only teasing, everyone knows nipples deform when dried. duh!
-only teasing, everyone knows nipples deform when dried. duh!
Perfextionist420
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Urca losing your virginity isn't going to be magical it's going to be nerve wracking to initiate and your going to have to take a risk it won't just happen.
I was a really shy guy, I lost mine when there was this girl I was cool with had just met her a couple weeks before but we chilled and smoked with other people around. She had come over with a couple friends to buy some bud and we were chilling at my place as the night went on her friends wanted to leave but she didn't feel like heading home. Me my buddy and her chilled for a bit then my buddy headed out and I was left with her.
We hung out for a little while smoking watching tv laying in bed and I was just thinking to myself, man you have this chill good lookin girl laying with you in your bed late at night smoking joints if there's a time to go for something now is it. Of course I was nervous as hell but I waited for a good eye contact moment we both moved for it made out and one thing lead to another. I was nervous but once started it was just fun and ended up being a great time multiple times. Didnt sleep much
I was a really shy guy, I lost mine when there was this girl I was cool with had just met her a couple weeks before but we chilled and smoked with other people around. She had come over with a couple friends to buy some bud and we were chilling at my place as the night went on her friends wanted to leave but she didn't feel like heading home. Me my buddy and her chilled for a bit then my buddy headed out and I was left with her.
We hung out for a little while smoking watching tv laying in bed and I was just thinking to myself, man you have this chill good lookin girl laying with you in your bed late at night smoking joints if there's a time to go for something now is it. Of course I was nervous as hell but I waited for a good eye contact moment we both moved for it made out and one thing lead to another. I was nervous but once started it was just fun and ended up being a great time multiple times. Didnt sleep much
Urca
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Urca losing your virginity isn't going to be magical it's going to be nerve wracking to initiate and your going to have to take a risk it won't just happen.
I was a really shy guy, I lost mine when there was this girl I was cool with had just met her a couple weeks before but we chilled and smoked with other people around. She had come over with a couple friends to buy some bud and we were chilling at my place as the night went on her friends wanted to leave but she didn't feel like heading home. Me my buddy and her chilled for a bit then my buddy headed out and I was left with her.
We hung out for a little while smoking watching tv laying in bed and I was just thinking to myself, man you have this chill good lookin girl laying with you in your bed late at night smoking joints if there's a time to go for something now is it. Of course I was nervous as hell but I waited for a good eye contact moment we both moved for it made out and one thing lead to another. I was nervous but once started it was just fun and ended up being a great time multiple times. Didnt sleep much
lol im not expecting magic, i would just like to lose it to a guy who will actually give a shit about me after everything is said and done
tip top toker
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Hint: These were not FRIENDS.
From what you are saying, he's the one who's probably wary of you, and for good reason. People do not like and dislike their FRIENDS because of their appearance, that is about as shallow as it gets, people become friends because of their personalities. He's probably wondering what the crack is and how he's meant to act. Fuck, if a girl forewarned me about her appearance i'd be let thinking nothing but more than friends. WTF. Sounds like you seriously need to get your self-esteem sorted out not to mention your tact, you'll get niether friends or boyfriends if this is how you normally act.
My best friend is a big fat chav. I couldn't give two shits, because he's a nice person with a good heart, despite the occasional plan to kneecap his adversaries
Urca
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well how many horror stories have you heard about people chatting for a few weeks, decididng to meet up, and one is a huge girl who claimed to be 5'1 and 105, but really is 5'8 and 450 pounds? Im exaggerating, but i wanted to be upfront. If he didnt like it, well, fuck him. But he said it didnt matter. It was a self defense mechanism on my part
RawBudzski
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Pix or it never happened.
chewy*barber
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I wish I had read the whole thread -my apologies- I didn't foresee a serious discussion after the opener...
Sounds like a nice guy to me, and he did try something, he tried to get you high and have a good time. There's nothing wrong with that.
Sounds like a nice guy to me, and he did try something, he tried to get you high and have a good time. There's nothing wrong with that.
tip top toker
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Many, and everyone was with regard to a date, not friends meeting for a smoke. Friends might warn the other with regard of what to expect for say, identifying in a crowd at a festival, not just warning in advance. Seriously, come on....
I chat online with a lot of people, i do not need to know what they look like before meeting up with them, because i couldn't give a shit, so why would anyone else. Anyone who doesn't like someone they first meet because they are fat or whatever, they were never their with friends as their initial goal. That of they are such a shallow person that you'd be glad they walked away fom you, fucking knowing people like that.
Not to be harsh, but you're 18, act like it. Friends do not give two damns about your appearance unless say you're trying to win free entry to a swanky club or something silly where it's all based on looks "your face... offends... my mirror" haha, watched that a few nights ago
Everything you are saying is ringing true or arranging a date, not meeting a friend.
Urca
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lol i dont normally do this kinda thing with people i never met in person before... its completely different in personHint: These were not FRIENDS.
From what you are saying, he's the one who's probably wary of you, and for good reason. People do not like and dislike their FRIENDS because of their appearance, that is about as shallow as it gets, people become friends because of their personalities. He's probably wondering what the crack is and how he's meant to act. Fuck, if a girl forewarned me about her appearance i'd be let thinking nothing but more than friends. WTF. Sounds like you seriously need to get your self-esteem sorted out not to mention your tact, you'll get niether friends or boyfriends if this is how you normally act.
My best friend is a big fat chav. I couldn't give two shits, because he's a nice person with a good heart, despite the occasional plan to kneecap his adversaries