I already explained that I want government completely out of it just like many other things.
Show me in the bill of rights where "Marriage" is granted.
That is the fallacy in your argument.
show me where in the bill of rights it mentions ice cream is granted.
since it isn't, ice cream is meant for straight people, and gays can't have it.
fact is, the government issues marriage licenses for any number of reasons, legal and otherwise. this isn't going to end anytime soon.
denying this license to one group of citizens over another is a clear violation of the 14th amendment, and anyone who can fucking read can see that.
the fallacy in your argument is that it is based in fantasy land and partisan talking points.