Poll For Men

Do/did you want to get married?

  • Yes

    Votes: 19 47.5%
  • No

    Votes: 21 52.5%

  • Total voters
    40

neosapien

Well-Known Member
No, not in the archaic traditional sense. My wife did though. Give ya 2 guesses on who won that battle.
 

420God

Well-Known Member
Yes, but it didn't happen the way we wanted. We were engaged already then she got pregnant so for insurance reasons we had a courthouse wedding with just our parents.
 

Ilovebush

Well-Known Member
I think I've might have seen one to many failed marriages. If you find the right girl then I'm all for it but it seems like most are too self centered to understand what compromise is.
 

theexpress

Well-Known Member
i voted no... most marriages dont last... i dont beleave in soulmates... only that 2 people are compatible with each other for a certain period of time...
 

Padawanbater2

Well-Known Member
i voted no... most marriages dont last... i dont beleave in soulmates... only that 2 people are compatible with each other for a certain period of time...
Exactly how I feel.


Do you guys think marriage has become sort of obsolete? Do you think it would be hard to maintain a relationship with a wife in today's world as a man?

What kinds of benefits are there to having a wife v. not having one? The only real advantage I see is in all intents and purposes, it's somewhat necessary to raise kids in the kind of healthy environment all the experts and most studies indicate, though there are exceptions.

The divorce rate is ridiculous, it's a complete roll of the dice, and with most of us having experienced relationships (in our minds, we thought they'd last forever, THIS is the ONE!) that failed after less than 2 years, it's hard to imagine sticking with someone for LIFE.. as a single guy anyway..

Can a married man shed some insight on this? It's like I want to want it, but I don't because it's just too unrealistic these days...
 
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