I'm in a terrible girl situation

high|hgih

high|hgih

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This always happens too me. But it sounds weird and kidish a little.. But basically I'm dating this psycho bitch that I need to dump so bad. So I am tomorrow I have it all planned :) Anyways. I am like drooling over one of my buddies girlfriend.. She is the most perfect girl ever, and she's been coming onto me recently.. The thing is she is such a kind hearted, nice girl that she may just be being nice. But shes being extra nice. Its ridiculous and its tying my stomach sweedish knots n shit. She was there the night that I seizured. I've known her for years. We've always been good friends. But after that overdose scene, me and her have gotten very very close. My friend(her boyfriend) is a drug addict. I know she has to want to get away from him. The thing is they have a very quirky relationship. I feel like if I viciously rip them apart like an asshole, she will go back to him. He is just so romantic.. Even though he's a criminal and a drug addict xD Its funny. I love the dude don't get me wrong. Which is why this is extra hard. I dont think he would particularly care, but they have been dating for 2 years or so, I just feel too bad.I just am like.. Whats the word? I can't think of it. Im obsessing. And I don't know what to do :'( Im gonna give it some time and talk to her about it, she;ll be open. But first things first I gotta get rid of my girlfriend lolWhat do I do?
 
red0021

red0021

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Yeah, switch girlfriends.

But on the real, if you think she seems so cool, you probably don't know her very well. That's how bitches are.

Anyways, find your own hoe, they're never as special as they seem.
 
april

april

Pickle Queen
How would u want this handled if u were the other guy, be respectful and remember everyone involved has feelings. I would find out how SHE feels about u, ask her how serious they are, how she feels about maybe dating u . Tell her how u feel. Dude life is about going after the things u want. Not causing drama, approach this the right way and u might get the girl u want and keep ur friend, do it worng and u end up alone. Either way ditch the chick ur with so she can move on, sounds like trouble to me but then again i'm one to speak lol ;)
 
blazinkill504

blazinkill504

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if yall were really friends you wouldnt do shit with his girl. so is it yall arent that close or you just dont care about losin him as a friend? i highly doubt he'll wanna be cool with you after you just took the girl he's been with for 2 years. my opinion is they have a lot of nice girls out there an takin one from a friend is a lose lose. so you lose a friend and to me id always wonder shit she did it to him whats to stop her from doin it to me one day.
 
cannabineer

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
April and blazinkill make some good points ... consider the honorable way to move forward. If you want to break up with your current gf, that is yours to do. But I would not entertain the other girl's hopes, if that's what they are, unless/until she formally breaks up with your friend. Please do not get sucked into or help set up a triangle ... those usually turn nasty. cn
 
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Gyroscope

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There are so many women out there so why take your friends girl ?

Bad move for sure.

If you don't want to be with your girl anymore let her know and move on to the next one, but you can find a good one without doing something shady like stealing a buddys girl. If you do, you will not be trusted by the rest of your friends etc.......
 
Californicater

Californicater

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So what is your plan. For dumping your current crazy girl at least. Getting rid of her may be the hardest hurdle to climb... Odds are the girl you are obsessing for will be repulsed by you after you break the crazy girls heartbongsmilie
 
dirtyho1968

dirtyho1968

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Don't be a buddy fucker, that's some low shit.
Remember, if she cheats on her man with his good friend she'll probably end up cheating on you.
 
marcy

marcy

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bros before hoes mate if my mate took my girl after being with her for over two years i would swing his jaw left to right a few times then introduce a baseball bat to the legs a few times then mayb a tazer on his balls and finish it of by tieing him up in a forest and forgetting he was ever there..... just saying lol
mates should be able to talk to one enuther about the way there feeling. you say hes a drug addict / criminal but look what web site your on bro .....:)
 
James87

James87

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high|hgih said:
This always happens too me. But it sounds weird and kidish a little.. But basically I'm dating this psycho bitch that I need to dump so bad. So I am tomorrow I have it all planned :) Anyways. I am like drooling over one of my buddies girlfriend.. She is the most perfect girl ever, and she's been coming onto me recently.. The thing is she is such a kind hearted, nice girl that she may just be being nice. But shes being extra nice. Its ridiculous and its tying my stomach sweedish knots n shit. She was there the night that I seizured. I've known her for years. We've always been good friends. But after that overdose scene, me and her have gotten very very close. My friend(her boyfriend) is a drug addict. I know she has to want to get away from him. The thing is they have a very quirky relationship. I feel like if I viciously rip them apart like an asshole, she will go back to him. He is just so romantic.. Even though he's a criminal and a drug addict xD Its funny. I love the dude don't get me wrong. Which is why this is extra hard. I dont think he would particularly care, but they have been dating for 2 years or so, I just feel too bad.I just am like.. Whats the word? I can't think of it. Im obsessing. And I don't know what to do :'( Im gonna give it some time and talk to her about it, she;ll be open. But first things first I gotta get rid of my girlfriend lolWhat do I do?
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Umm lets see, three points to make..

1) You seem to be making a lot of assumptions.. "I have it all planned" .. "she's been coming onto me" .. "I know she has to want to get away from him" .. "I dont think he would particularly care" .. "she;ll be open"

2) What difference does it make if you keep your girlfriend or not, if you're drooling over your buddy's gf anyway? Maybe you're "projecting" this psycho thing onto her, when maybe she's just a really sweet girl and you're the psycho. You did say "this always happens to me".... How many psycho's do you think there are?

3) What do you think your buddy's gf is going to think of you, after you dump your gf just to have a chance at her? That seems kinda desperate. Its def not romantic, if thats your angle. Quite the opposite. Its pretty greasy. When it comes to this sort of thing, its always best to let her make the move. Create a situation where you're together and alone, but DON'T allude to any kind of "whatever you're talking about". Seriously. Play into it, and if anything, make her think it was her idea. And then if something starts, say something like, "I never thought this would happen," DON'T go saying "I've been planning this for years and fapping to your pic every night." What are you, crazy?
 
James87

James87

Active Member
Also you should keep your gf, because then the four of you can have couples dates or whatever, and MAYBE you can figure out a way to get your buddy to want to be with your gf, and then MAYBE you can get him to think it was his idea to switch gf's or whatever. Or it can lead to a foursome..
 
Chiggachamp

Chiggachamp

Active Member
I was in this situation last year.
Started habging out with my buddy alot. And he had a gf i hooked up with a couple years back. And my friend was always a dick to her. So one day she started texting me saying she misses me so i play along and she ends up telling me if she breaks up with him then its "fair game" but i thought it threw ans i couldnt kick it with him everyday with his girl by my side. Lol so i told her i couldnt do it to him. She ends up breaking up with him anyways and i no longer kick it with him. So i could have dated hee and still be to this day.. But i now got a girl im crazy about. So it all worked out
 
1Shot1Kill

1Shot1Kill

Active Member
I was in a situation kinda like this one time. My friends gf of 4 years was a classmate of mine and we grew up together all the way from elementary school, disrupting class together and what not. We never did anything through school, just close friends. I mean I used to hamburger flip her tits and shit in middle school but nothing serious. So anyway, we were both out of school and she is with this guy thats a few years younger than us. I kinda taught him how to move weight and shit and we became close partners, always together with her always around as well. After a few months she started picking me up from my house while he was at school and just hung out. We did normal stuff like running errands and just enjoying spring together keeping each other company. He didn't think anything of it because he kinda looked up to me and they were together for 4 years so I apparently wasn't a threat. There was always flirtatious energy between her and I and it was well known by both sides. She started really doing herself up for me and looking really sexy when she picked me up and we were talking for hours at night before we went to sleep (if he wasn't with her). You see where this is going and it was hard to respect my friend but he started making it easy for me by weighing short bags for friends and being a dick to her. Pills started to change his life and whatever. I started going to her house when he wasn't around and watching movies and gettin baked. One particular night he was out of state for the weekend and we found ourselves in her bed watching a movie. We started with some normal friend space in between us but as the movie went on we found ourselves getting closer. She would grab something and lay back down a little closer and I would flick some ashes and get a little more comfortable. A few adjustments later and we were inches apart practically touching shoulders. Its a bit unclear now how it actually happened but we found ourselves looking at each other totally ignoring the movie. She did the thing where a girl looks at your lips uncontrollably and looks back into your eyes and back at your lips. It was like our lips became magnetic and hers were so soft just like I always imagined. We kissed and we kissed a lot. We stopped and laughed feeling ashamed of what we had just done but it felt so right. We went 19 years always wondering and finally found out. One thing led to another and I experienced my first squirter, yes squirter. It was like a little pressure washer blowing off at the peak of tension. Talk about a wet ride lol. Nothing ever happened after that and eventually he found out (3 years later) but they are still together and have a baby now.. Our friendship is non existent now but it was a night I will never forget no doubt.

So If you're ready to really hurt your friend for something that any other girl can do I say go ahead, but if you're not up for that then I wouldn't advise it. It really tares you up inside for a long time when you intervene in someones perfect relationship.
 
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