Dating

[splitphilly]

I admire someone who can devote so much faith to a higher being, but at the same time, I feel bad for those who support a church. So I guess that's where I draw the line. She can believe in a god, but can't be a regular at church. At least not a Christian church. Maybe a synagogue or a mosque is a little bit different, but let's be honest, I'm not that cultured.

 

[Dislexicmidget2021]

Do atheists date chicks or dudes that are believers?

If so, why are you being such a hypocrite

an atheist dating a chick that believes in god is not hypocracy,Its called attraction.If youre hetero atheist X that sees hot ass believer chick Y ,,,guess what?Youre going to want to get to know her and have sex with this chick,atheist X will in fact adjust his tact to win her over,not adjust the lack of belief in any deity to get what he seeks,,,simple and basic as that.

 

[mindphuk]

Hypocrisy is the state of pretending to have virtues, moral or religious beliefs, principles, etc., that one does not actually have.[SUP][1][/SUP] Hypocrisy involves the deception of others and is thus a kind of lie.[SUP][1][/SUP]

Hypocrisy is not simply failing to practice those virtues that one preaches. Samuel Johnson made this point when he wrote about the misuse of the charge of "hypocrisy" in Rambler No. 14:

Nothing is more unjust, however common, than to charge with hypocrisy him that expresses zeal for those virtues which he neglects to practice; since he may be sincerely convinced of the advantages of conquering his passions, without having yet obtained the victory, as a man may be confident of the advantages of a voyage, or a journey, without having courage or industry to undertake it, and may honestly recommend to others, those attempts which he neglects himself.[SUP][2][/SUP]

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Thus, an alcoholic's advocating temperance, for example, would not be considered an act of hypocrisy as long as the alcoholic made no pretense of constant sobriety.



Sorry Oly, I just cannot see how someone that doesn't believe in something, dating someone that does is a hypocrite. So for the third time you have made that assertion but have yet to explain it even though you have been asked to clarify. What principle(s) does the atheist claim to have that they don't?

You also have made the charge of an atheist believing that belief is dangerous. There is nothing about atheism that says that. We have tried to teach you numerous times that atheism is about one thing, disbelief in a god or gods and says nothing about what they do believe in any other area including what they think about religion in general. UndertheIce is a frequent atheist poster here that routinely defends theism and religion. If you keep confusing atheism with anti-theism, you will continue to be wrong and I will continue to point it out.

We've discussed this before, as an individual, I like you and I think we would get along quite well IRL. Would you and I being friends make me a hypocrite?

 

[tyler.durden]

We've discussed this before, as an individual, I like you and I think we would get along quite well IRL. Would you and I being friends make me a hypocrite?

Probably not. But you guys better not start dating, just to be on the safe side

 

[Zaehet Strife]

I like you and I think we would get along quite well IRL.

I don't, this oly kid is a top class arrogant self-contradicting ass dick, im usually more frank, but i have not heard anything beneficial on his behalf since he's showed up here... but alas, to each their own.

 

[UncleBuck]

bigot? son you need to look in the mirror/
why you mad?

mad? i'm laughing at you. you're a bigot. you constantly go around calling people faggots.

are you too much of a douche to protect your family in a shoot out situation?

cause what I got from your post, you would be running over people to get...

imitation being the sincerest form of flattery, i'll take this as a compliment since this is what i said about you when you tried to play internet tough guy.

too easy. now go ahead, call me a faggot. that'll show 'em.

 

[UncleBuck]

I don't, this oly kid is a top class arrogant self-contradicting ass dick, im usually more frank, but i have not heard anything beneficial on his behalf since he's showed up here... but alas, to each their own.

nailed it right there.

 

[mindphuk]

I don't, this oly kid is a top class arrogant self-contradicting ass dick, im usually more frank, but i have not heard anything beneficial on his behalf since he's showed up here... but alas, to each their own.

I've had some PMs with him and I think his IRL personality is different than what he tries to portray online. Generally, I would give most anyone a chance, at the very least, have a good intense smoke sesh. I bet I would get along with oly way before I would get along with an idiot like CWE.

 

[Chief Walkin Eagle]

I've had some PMs with him and I think his IRL personality is different than what he tries to portray online. Generally, I would give most anyone a chance, at the very least, have a good intense smoke sesh. I bet I would get along with oly way before I would get along with an idiot like CWE.

Hey now, I can rent a high horse, then we can see eye to eye =p.

 

[olylifter420]

Dude,you support pad... Read his current threads. He clearly believes all believers beliefs are dangerous.

The hypocrisy i see is those people on here who clearly bash beliefs of believers dating people who believe... If that aint a hypocrite, then that is a piece of shit.

How are atheists not decepting believers they date by them going to church and pretending they believe to sleep with em?

I have seen several of these comments on here, maybe you missed em.

No, it would not make you a hypocrite cause you already know i am a believer... You are not deceiving me vy saying you have common beliefs as mine.

Hypocrisy is the state of pretending to have virtues, moral or religious beliefs, principles, etc., that one does not actually have.[SUP][1][/SUP] Hypocrisy involves the deception of others and is thus a kind of lie.[SUP][1][/SUP]

Hypocrisy is not simply failing to practice those virtues that one preaches. Samuel Johnson made this point when he wrote about the misuse of the charge of "hypocrisy" in Rambler No. 14:

Nothing is more unjust, however common, than to charge with hypocrisy him that expresses zeal for those virtues which he neglects to practice; since he may be sincerely convinced of the advantages of conquering his passions, without having yet obtained the victory, as a man may be confident of the advantages of a voyage, or a journey, without having courage or industry to undertake it, and may honestly recommend to others, those attempts which he neglects himself.[SUP][2][/SUP]

​

Thus, an alcoholic's advocating temperance, for example, would not be considered an act of hypocrisy as long as the alcoholic made no pretense of constant sobriety.



Sorry Oly, I just cannot see how someone that doesn't believe in something, dating someone that does is a hypocrite. So for the third time you have made that assertion but have yet to explain it even though you have been asked to clarify. What principle(s) does the atheist claim to have that they don't?

You also have made the charge of an atheist believing that belief is dangerous. There is nothing about atheism that says that. We have tried to teach you numerous times that atheism is about one thing, disbelief in a god or gods and says nothing about what they do believe in any other area including what they think about religion in general. UndertheIce is a frequent atheist poster here that routinely defends theism and religion. If you keep confusing atheism with anti-theism, you will continue to be wrong and I will continue to point it out.

We've discussed this before, as an individual, I like you and I think we would get along quite well IRL. Would you and I being friends make me a hypocrite?

 

[Zaehet Strife]

I treat others as i would like to be treated, until they treat me with spite... then i will retaliate with the same.

You hit me... i'm not just going to stand around and take it, im going to punch back.

Just because we have differing opinions about the origin of the universe, and an after life... or lack there of, you presume to attack me with insults. Like i said before, you attack me, i attack you. Same goes for everyone.

There are plenty of people here on RIU who don't consider me a dick, because they have yet to be a dick to me.

 

[blazinkill504]

I don't, this oly kid is a top class arrogant self-contradicting ass dick, im usually more frank, but i have not heard anything beneficial on his behalf since he's showed up here... but alas, to each their own.

you cant blame him dude...its all that test he has flowin from those sport specific olympic lifts! hahaha i had to sorry

truth is you would be all over an atheist bitch if she was hot cause first the wouldnt really be a main question to ask when you're tryin to get the cakes. now datin i dont see like everyone said its bein a hypocrite if you dont start to change what you believe or start prayin with the bitch. im sure you've talked shit about a certain race or mentality of woman yet you'd date one in a heartbeat if she looked good enough.

 

[olylifter420]

Not really bro.

I aint stupid. I like my woman to be intelligent.

I need to know the person and how they are. Im not a young gun per se and im more serious now.

I havent oly lifted in a year. I miss it though.. Been to busy tryin to finish school and do my job.

you cant blame him dude...its all that test he has flowin from those sport specific olympic lifts! hahaha i had to sorry

truth is you would be all over an atheist bitch if she was hot cause first the wouldnt really be a main question to ask when you're tryin to get the cakes. now datin i dont see like everyone said its bein a hypocrite if you dont start to change what you believe or start prayin with the bitch. im sure you've talked shit about a certain race or mentality of woman yet you'd date one in a heartbeat if she looked good enough.

 

[olylifter420]

Sorry, but you were the one who first started bloating about my beliefs way back...

So in your words, you attacked me first... So you were the dick then.

I treat others as i would like to be treated, until they treat me with spite... then i will retaliate with the same.

You hit me... i'm not just going to stand around and take it, im going to punch back.

Just because we have differing opinions about the origin of the universe, and an after life... or lack there of, you presume to attack me with insults. Like i said before, you attack me, i attack you. Same goes for everyone.

There are plenty of people here on RIU who don't consider me a dick, because they have yet to be a dick to me.

 

[UncleBuck]

Why do you leave out my reply?

Pussy, i love my family, you know what that means?

I would take the bullets for them pussy.

You just mad cause you dont have the balls.,yu play online god mr goodie two shoes im a saint douchebag...

I see through you man. You fake

I like you, idk why you mad


BIGOT, calling me a fag...

So what are you?

An online predator/stalker? Taking it balls deep to embarass fin...

I can see why plenty call you a douche bag liar...

 

[Zaehet Strife]

Sorry, but you were the one who first started bloating about my beliefs way back...

So in your words, you attacked me first... So you were the dick then.

Bro... i am not the type of person to attack someone individually, yes, i may said some shit about your ideas (beliefs) you have that i don't necessarily agree with, but i am almost positive you were the first to launch the assault.

I am always up for a good clean debate, and i never insult anyone who has not insulted me.... regardless of beliefs, because i do not have any, i am talking about me personally.

 

[blazinkill504]

Not really bro.

I aint stupid. I like my woman to be intelligent.

I need to know the person and how they are. Im not a young gun per se and im more serious now.

I havent oly lifted in a year. I miss it though.. Been to busy tryin to finish school and do my job.

so a hot ass chick starts a casual convo with you an you really like what she is sayin an clearly can tell she isnt dumb an she wants to go back to your or her place you gonna be like....hold up you believe in jesus? you really expect me to believe that?

 

[Padawanbater2]

I aint stupid. I like my woman to be intelligent.

I for one would not date an atheist... most atheist girls i have met do not have ambition or drive to better themselves...

So in othr words you feel superior to believer chicks and think they are stupid...

Cool. Thats a typical standard douchebag.

I find it very hard for myself to be something i am not.. Seems you atheists are very good at that.

So all in all, atheists are hypocrites and not ad good as they thought to be...

I call people like you scum

You can't make this shit up...

You're claiming atheists who post here feel superior to theists, yet you openly admit it yourself. "most atheists I have met don't have ambition or drive to better themselves"... "I like my woman to be intelligent"..

LOL

For an ironic definition of hypocrite, check the last set of quotes...


Anyway, as for the OP, I think it's shallow to actively oppose dating a believer in the same way it would be shallow to actively oppose dating darker skinned chicks or bigger chicks.. Though in some cases, being religious definitely correlates to intelligence, and it shows. I've been with a girl who was pretty religious and she actually told me that me being an atheist was a "red flag", she was the kind of chick who also considered smoking weed a "red flag", so you get the idea... lol

Funny, I've never done something like that with any believer just because she held a belief in a god...

Also, keep in mind the ratio, eliminating believers would essentially turn the dating game into a successful sausage fest.


I don't have any problem dating a believer, just as long as she's not too crazy.

 

[olylifter420]

Ok... That sounds good guys...

I see that you will never see it which is understandable.

 

[olylifter420]

Its called discovery man...

Learn how to use it

so a hot ass chick starts a casual convo with you an you really like what she is sayin an clearly can tell she isnt dumb an she wants to go back to your or her place you gonna be like....hold up you believe in jesus? you really expect me to believe that?