PadPad, you'd be an awesome older brother xx
I could have. But he's a weird one who would always twist things to make you feel like you owed him something. He actually owes me a couple hundred but has nothing... We were so close I would have wanted to date him once but when I worked out what was going on it kind of frightened me how far it was going. Holyfuck how asleep do you have to be to get on top of someone and pry your way between their legs? Though I have heard of sleepwalkers doing all sorts.
Lol PadPad, T-Bird was 'sacrificing a goat' next to me and I was pissed he was more interested in the porn. That's only because I was so in love with him though. Generally speaking you just shouldn't do that.
And I know two cases of a guy pining after their ex who had a girl grab their dick and it really really upset them. Though one was actually rebound fucking a friend of ours, apparently this random girl being someone othe than his ex upset him. Trying not to sound unsympathetic... But yeah Some men want to save themselves or just feel violated having someone touch their private area. It's not quite the same as women having to uphold this image of purity or having something foreign put in them, but What if a man was supposed to be celibate and some random hooker comes and defiles him? What if a malicious woman went around spreading her diseases? Or a guy rapes them (that would be traumatic physically and mentally, especially if they were straight) It does happen to guys, I won't be completely blinkered and biased guys..
Oh well, I have my knight in shining armor now. Everything we do and will do is loving, mutual, consensual and beautiful.