The Sex Talk Thread

[Flaming Pie]

Do you sleep with someone before you become official or after?

I slept with before. But I think I should of waited on alot of my relationships. Best to only sleep with someone you can actually see yourself with long term.

My mom only slept with my dad, but before they were married. Then they married.

 

[Flaming Pie]

Just tell me if this uncomfortable or awkward, but I'm genuinely curious...because you are preggers already, does he still ejaculate inside of you? Or is that weird as fuck, like he'd be cuming on babies forehead?

I know that there is a mucus plug in my cervix that blocks all outside world from entering my uterus. I also know there is the amniotic sack that further insulates the baby.

So it is not weird to have him cum inside me.

Before I was pregnant, he wore a condom once foreplay was over.

 

[Flaming Pie]

How would you define love and why is it better than sex?
How would you define sex and why is it worse than love?

I think love between partners and sex is interrelated. Good sex is made better by love, and love is made better by sex.Clearly you believe sex with someone you love is the best way to engage in sex, but is sex with someone you don't love considered bad simply because it's not the best? Why is monogamy better than promiscuity? Why does it matter?

Sex is an exciting and pleasurable thing by itself.

Sex tends to cause you to form an attachment to the person you are having sex with. (to different degrees with different people) In sex you are trusting the other person to accept and recieve your body kindly. You are exposing all your flaws and desires in that moment of nakedness. It is a highly vulnerable position to be in for both men and women.

In my experience, if a connection formed by sex is abandoned shortly after, it leaves you feeling cheated. People want to be accepted and loved.

The "One night stand" takes away the comfort and security one needs to feel after sex.

This is why it is a common stereotype that women want to snuggle after sex. It makes them feel that their partner is satisfied and is grateful to be with them. They get the reassurance that the man found them attractive and sexy.

If the first time you have sex with a person and they leave right afterwards, you feel unappreciated. Was the sex good? Was your body attractive? Did you make too much noise? Was this a one night stand?

I believe each time you sleep with a person, you are giving a part of yourself to them and taking a part of them.

 

[Flaming Pie]

I don't exactly know what you mean by that. Like that would make someone less of a father? Please. If you were to ejaculate into a woman in her third trimester, semen would undoubtedly make it to where the baby is. Of course the baby is inside of a placenta within the woman, but still your cock is right next to babies face while your doing it. Having random thoughts like this would not make anyone less of a parent. Shit some people get distracted during intercourse by the simple distraction like tv. Fucking a woman with another person inside of her may be akward for some people, that doesn't make them less fit to raise a baby.

A womans body had protections in place to block the uterus from infection and keep the baby seperate from the outside world.

 

[Flaming Pie]

"cumming on the babies forehead"?

That is just down right ignorant, I'm sorry.

It's OK to be ignorant, it just means you haven't studied it enough to understand it.

The fetus is encapsulated in the placenta, there's no way more semen could get inside.

Don't forget the mucus plug in the cervix.

 

[PeyoteReligion]

"cumming on the babies forehead"?

That is just down right ignorant, I'm sorry.

It's OK to be ignorant, it just means you haven't studied it enough to understand it.

The fetus is encapsulated in the placenta, there's no way more semen could get inside.

LMFAO it just means you got trolled HARD bro.

But that's ok, it happens from time to time. Lol. Please re read my post that you have quoted, in which I clearly state that the baby is in a placenta. But hey, it's okay that you are so hasty to cast judgment that you don't even read a whole post that you quoted.

Im aware of the biology of a woman, what I was getting at was if it just felt weird having sex with a woman that has a baby inside of her ready to come out. I know you don't jizz on the babies forehead, OBVIOUS JOKE IS OBVIOUS. Jesus guys, I thought your know me better by now.

 

[Ninjabowler]

Why dont we talk about sumthin else? Maybe underware fashion?

 

[PeyoteReligion]

This one is a bit harsh. I can honestly see why having your penis in that proximity to a fetus' face would be weird for some. Sex is one of those things where some things are just "weird" for some people.

THIS is what I was tryin to get at. Is it weird knowing your dick is right next to a baby during intercourse with a pregnant woman? All jokes aside.

 

[sunni]

Why dont we talk about sumthin else? Maybe underware fashion?

im a boxers fan imho

 

[Flaming Pie]

What was wrong about what we were talking about?

 

[Padawanbater2]

Are you looking forward to giving birth?

Not to make you uneasy, but I'd be scared as fuck!

 

[Flaming Pie]

I am looking forward to getting rid of the baby bump for sure.

Then I might actually get an hour of sleep and be able to enjoy sex again!

Doctor said the reason sex is uncomfortable for my vajayjay is because of increased blood flow making it engorged.

 

[Flaming Pie]

Which basically means I am too tight to feel good.

Great for my hubby, sucks for me.

 

[sunni]

LOL you aint gunna get any sleep silly

 

[Flaming Pie]

LIES!!!!! I will sleep when baby sleeps. And pump breast milk so I can sleep in afternoon when hubby is home!

 

[april]

Why dont we talk about sumthin else? Maybe underware fashion?

I agree

 

[Flaming Pie]

Those look horrible on you. Or maybe it is the lighting.

 

[april]

Those look horrible on you. Or maybe it is the lighting.

I've seen what u look like, ur opinon of me means nothing hun, wow jealous much rflmao sad sweety very sad

 

[april]

Or wait this one is just as bad eh

 

[Flaming Pie]

I am not jealous. I compliment chicks all the time.

I am telling you those pics are not flattering. Lighting/flash idk.