err its been about 4 days so it would be hard to get a good pic but the calyx does look kinda tear shaped.
guess all i can do is wait... i hate waiting especially as this decides whether i have to start all over or not.
im not sure of correct terms so please excuse if i get anything wrong.
how long after the pistillate appear do the calyx's appear? im getting worried i got a male.
i got 2 pics 1 where hopefully you can see it curls under and the other where you can see it not curled under.
the good leaf:
the curled leaf:
sorry if the quality is bad, was taken on my phone. thanks for any help.