A slight Problem - Help :)

Okay I posted earlier showing my plant and explained the entire thing in this post below.

https://www.rollitup.org/newbie-central/173903-need-little-input-help.html

Thing is, I have a more concerning problem with my plant. If you look at these pics it doesn't look unstable, but when i blew on it a little, the thing fell over. I picked it back up and packed a little dirt, gently to keep it upright, but it looks as if the stem is curved at the bottom and goes under just like as if it just sprouted and was coming up sideways. I sorta fixed it now, but if anyone can look at the pics and maybe shed some light on how I can prevent this baby from topping over while I'm sleeping, I would greatly appreciate it.

Thanks.

Pics below.

Support it with something and put a fan on it so the stem gets stronger

put a straw in there and use bread ties.. or a plastic stick.. don't use wood, if you have to leave it on there for a while, it will start to rot and mold.

Imo either add more dirt &| tie that bitch up 2 a stick ...or... u can do a transplant &| bury the stem a lil deeper into tha pot so it stands up straight

Alright, I can easily tie it to a plastic straw, I'm thinking about making this a canopy plant. Think I should tie it down when it gets bigger? I wanna put it outside within the next month or so, but I'd also like it to bush out more, so it's not so noticeable. This is my first time growing though so..., I dunno. lol

By the way, I've looked at other plants on the forums the same age as mine, but yet a lot of them look skinnier with only a few leaves on it. Think my plant is doing cool? It's starting to smell damn good at the top of it. I just hope this thing is even female. My buddy says he has a way of determining the sex of the seed at 3-5 inches of growth, and believe it or not, the guy has NEVER been wrong. He tells me if it has these certain 2 horns on the side of the stem right under the first leaf growth, it's something. lol I don't remember. Anyways, thanks for reading and helping.