Yeah burning incense is probably juvenile, but so is having to smoke in your bathroom with a towel under the door and a window open...
This is why I suggested using a fruity or vanilla scent. If you use patchouli or some heavy musky scent like that (sandalwood, nag champa, etc...), you might as well put a sign on your front door....
If incense isn't listed in the lease, all they can do is ask you to stop, to actually get you to stop they will have to get others in the building to sign a petition, and that isn't going to happen over some incense smell unless it's one of those perfumy, musky scents...
If you use a room spray or one of those plug-in jobbies they can't get you on it being a fire hazard.
This is why I suggested a scent that is reminiscent of cooking, like cookies or vanilla, or bacon even...
I am sure your neighbors cook shit that reeks all the time, I know when I lived in an apartment, around dinner time the whole place would range in smell from pleasant to warmed dog food.
So if your house smells like bacon, what are they going to do?
Kick you out because of suspected high cholesterol?
I can understand why cigarettes or joints are not allowed, they are a fire hazard, they smell, and it makes re-painting the walls more difficult. But I cannot see why they are against vapes, unless the building owner/manager just quit and it's a personal issue....
Just get a cheap disposable, single use vape pen and give it a try, you'll see that unless your super is sniffing under your door or you become a "cloud chaser", they'll never know...
To be clear I am talking about oil vaping not dry herb vaporizers, the pen type dry herb vaporizer units smell exactly like you smoked a joint and you get the terrible aftertaste of the element wire in your mouth, yeah!!!
With oil vaping, unless the cartridge is crap, all you'll taste are the terpenes of the cannabis and the flavor that was added and the scent dissipates quickly, like seconds...
Later when you get into mixing your own vape liquids, cut back on the VG (vegetable glycerin) and there won't be anywhere near as much smoke produced.
If you use a pre-mixed liquidizer like WAX to mix your extracts, this produces a little smoke but nothing like a 50:50 VG
G mix.