damn seriously go to the newb section and do some reading. no bud from a male. marijuana 101. sorry man i know ithat was kinda harsh. this other dude is really pissin me off...anyway yeah no bud from a male. im just saying you have a lot to learn, most of it can be found by using a simple search. good luck with your grow.
you should just toss her out before she polinates your females. i wouldnt bother colecting pollen untill youve had a few grows under your belt. this can be tricky, if you dont want to end up with millions of seeds everywhere, and hardly any smoke.