curing for nearly 2 weeks and starting to worry please help

when i open my tub it smells nice and some buds are nice and dense and smell a little better then others but the bud its self is starting to go soft and smell a little like hay its my first time and need some help pleas

Need more details. Pics of plants at harvest?

Most likely the buds were still a little too moist when you put them into the tub. When they hang dry, the buds will start to feel crispy on the outside. When you out them into a closed tub, the moisture within the buds redistributes and they will feel “soft“ the next day. When the moisture content is perfect, this wont happen anymore. Do you have any sort of meter/gauge for humidity? If so, this could help to confirm. There are little devices that will fit inside a jar or tub (made for cigar humidors) that work well for this. Be wary of mold.

How many threads are you going to make asking the same question over and over ?
Seems like ADD

I’m with he missinthe90s. Sounds like they weren’t quite ready for jar curing. If the buds feel moist, they need to come back out of the jar, or at least sit in an open jar for a while. Maybe try to brown bag them for a day or so and then back into the jars. Pay close attention. But don’t let them sit too moist in a sealed container. Sounds like you might benefit from some Boveda humidity control packs and cheap humidity reading devices. I got a box of 10 or 12 from Amazon a while back. Not totally accurate, but helpful. Brown bag and/or leave the lids off for at least a few hours if not a whole day.

Why don't you tell everyone your whole harvesting and drying process and details including things like your 'tub'. It sounds like they weren't ready for cure quite yet.