yah, i agree with april about movies making crappy first dates for pretty much the same reason's she said.. unless it is someone that you know pretty well, and aren't going out to see if you click like dude said, then movies aren't the best picks for a first date.. not being able to talk to the dude is a major reason why.. i know you can talk during the movie and what not, but its not like say going out to eat or something along those lines where your free to talk the entire time and have a better chance to get to know each other..
but yah, it sounds like a date to me, and even if it's not, who cares, your going out with a dude whom you obviously have some kind of feelings for, and who knows where it could lead, and at least you've got your foot in the door so to speak if its not a date...