Family f*cked me over

I'm pretty stressed out, and just need to vent.

So, about 3-4 months ago, my brother finds out that my boyfriend and I
grow.

He lives, in Texas. He offers us a deal that we just can't refuse.

He tells us he will rent a house, and use all of his equipment to help us grow
a couple of lbs so we can get on our feet. (We're broke college students)
My mom says she will help get the house also, and that she will save up money
for the move.

Our end of the deal, Veg 2 mothers big enough to take 75 clones when the time comes.

He has (2) 400 watt hps lights with air cooled hoods, CO2, and all the nutrients and about 5 years growing experience.

So, this is back in late january. So, we abandon our plans to flower out the plants
we have, and commence to veg them until he comes out to CA.

He says he will have the house to grow in the same week he arrives.

Fast forward to the future, in early March, these plants are getting humongous.
They're so big, they can't be contained in our growing area. We are forced to put them outside. They got to be 4 ft tall btw.

He arrives in CA and immediately gains employment after three days of moving here.
(I wish someone would just hand me a fucking job. )

Well, things aren't working out how we planned. 3 weeks go by and still, no house.
The plants are as tall as me now. About 5 ft tall.

So we're stuck concealing huge 5 ft plants waiting to chop these bitches down
and get rid of them to start flowering the clones we're supposed to take from them.

Another month goes by, and still, no house.

Needless to say, my boyfriend and I are pretty pissed off.
We wasted 3 months vegging plants thinking we would
be getting a lb by the summertime and be able to start renting our own place.

The whole point of him moving out here was that all 3 of us would benefit
from this endeavor and we would finally be out on our own.

Its damn near June, and still no house.

We are forced to chop one plant down to about 3 and a half feet, and start flowering her. She's a hybrid, but her phenotype is very sativa, so she was getting too tall to hide outside.

The other 5 ft plant is transported to an undisclosed location where (2) 400 watt HPS will be used to flower her.

We will be getting half of that harvest.

So in the meantime, since we wasted half the year taking care of vegging plants, we have NO bud to sell, and I'm forced to cancel my car insurance.
(Our income is selling bud to make it through school, CA is so broke no one is really
hiring. Mostly only manager positions open.)

Now, flashback to earlier in the year. My gramma says that I can stay with her until
my brother gets us the house. She knows we're depending on them.

Well, for some reason, she says I have to leave now because she wants to rent out my room.


WTF!!!

I depended on my mom and brother because they said they'd help us out.


Needless to say, I should have never depended on them because now
for some odd reason, my gramma says my brothers and mom can stay here
but I have to GTFO...

Wtf, so now we've vegged plants to 5 ft tall, used nearly all of our veg
nutes, and we get fucked in the ass?!

We held up our part of the deal, but they didn't hold up theirs so now for
some reason I have to leave?

Since we've had no bud to sell, I'm forced to cancel my car insurance
and I have no idea what I'm going to do. I'm so broke I don't even

have gas to go talk to managers about getting hired. (Everyone knows
you need to keep going in consistently to talk to the manager to even be
considered for a position)

So, I'm fucked. My gramma just hates me because my boyfriend
isn't black. (Seriously.... you wanna know why just PM me)

I guess I have no choice but to stay with my boyfriend and his grandparents.
I know they'll let me stay. 2 months ago, their car broke down, and they live
8 MILES from the nearest store, and their mailbox is half a mile from their house.
Gramma is crippled, and gpa recently had triple by-pass surgery. So, they really
needed the help.

Their daughters were VERY reluctant to help them for some reason, so
I was the only one there to help them. I took them to dr appts, grocery shopping, to pay bills, post office..etc etc.

I know they appreciate what I've done for them even when their own
children wouldn't help them.

I've been holding back tears all day.

I don't know why I'm the target in this situation.

I honestly think my grandmother likes to see me stressed out and struggling.
I think she likes to see all of us stressed out and struggling.

She's such a BITCH, and everyone else is just straight up unreliable.

I don't know what to do....

sell the plants, get ur own place and grow, fuck the goverman, dont work just to get taxed, i make my money from dealing and i can buy the what the fuck i like when i like, disconnect ur fam and move on.

if you cant make enough from selling weed, then your full of poo.

You're over 18 I presume?

I remember another thread where you called your grandmother a bitch, after you had admitted she has supported you for a very long time.

Depending on others is something you do as a kid, when you're an adult... the only person you should depend on is yourself.

SocataSmoker said:

You're over 18 I presume?

I remember another thread where you called your grandmother a bitch, after you had admitted she has supported you for a very long time.

Depending on others is something you do as a kid, when you're an adult... the only person you should depend on is yourself.

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well put

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When the smokes clear hun its yourself. Im was always the one that helped my family and when it comes down to being helped forget about it so you got to help youself b4 you help others you'll think of something thats what build your personality just DO NOT DEPEND ON NO ONE! So you can only let yourself down. Its hard and takes lots of practice, but when you do shit yourself thats when $$$$ come in, learn how to grow save $$$ get your own home and do yo thang. Get a job first no excuse! Labor ready something. You'll be alright just a lil problem that you have to solve it be over soon if you really want it, good luck.

You could clone the hell out of your vegging plants and make some good cash in the process. Turn them over to a collective nearby and you're in good shape.

Cyproz said:

if you cant make enough from selling weed, then your full of poo.

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Its a small tent brodie, trust me, if I could upgrade I would.
Its just, space is a big factor here. Thats why the big plants had to to
outside.

SocataSmoker said:

You're over 18 I presume?

I remember another thread where you called your grandmother a bitch, after you had admitted she has supported you for a very long time.

Depending on others is something you do as a kid, when you're an adult... the only person you should depend on is yourself.

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Yes, just turned 20. And I've learned just that from this situation. I feel bad for saying it, but I never should have relied on my mom or brother. And I won't tell her that because it will probably make her feel like shit.
She wasn't there for us when we were all younger, and I know she's just trying to make things right because
she feels bad for not being there.....but she just hasn't been too dependable.

When I first graduated, I was out of school for almost 5 months because back then, "we were moving out of state" according
to my mom, and that never happened either. Since then, we were supposedly gonna move to Texas, then North Carolina, and
now just in CA. Eh, I know she's trying, but I guess Its all up to me to do what I need to do.

don2009 said:

When the smokes clear hun its yourself. Im was always the one that helped my family and when it comes down to being helped forget about it so you got to help youself b4 you help others you'll think of something thats what build your personality just DO NOT DEPEND ON NO ONE! So you can only let yourself down. Its hard and takes lots of practice, but when you do shit yourself thats when $$$$ come in, learn how to grow save $$$ get your own home and do yo thang. Get a job first no excuse! Labor ready something. You'll be alright just a lil problem that you have to solve it be over soon if you really want it, good luck.

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Thanks for the encouraging words.


Right in the middle of this fiasco, my dad calls (whom I haven't talked to in nearly 18 yrs) and
is doing what he can to help me. (THANK GOODNESS!)

I feel alot better since talking to my dad about it because he made me
realize that my grandmother is just the way she is and isn't going to change.

He told me thats how he met my mom, because gramma kicked her out and she
was homeless on the streets and he took her in.

That just proves my grandmother has no social skills,
if someone isn't doing things her way, she puts them out without discussion.

I guess she's never heard of talking things out.

I highly doubt anyone would want to rent my room anyway.
No one wants to live in a house where every damn adult smokes cigarettes or cigars in the house with
no windows open, and 3 adolescent boys running around. Along with my mom and my oldest brother.


So I highly doubt she'll get someone to move into a house with several people already living here, plus
they're all smokers.

I'm gonna laugh in her face when she cleans out my room and no one wants to rent it.

The plants are being flowered now....

But FUCK, this sucks so much.

I bet you have an idea of how much nutes a 5ft plant would use.
We're low on veg nutes now because of this....

No bud to sell fucking sucks balls.