My opinions...
Very good info here...
Read some of the DIY threads...
Dedicate part of one bedroom to your grow...
Change or add a lock to the door that goes to that room...
Getting enough power to an apartment, you need to do some electrical work...
Plan your first grow as a learning experience, don't expect killer yields...
If you have not moved yet, if you take a sample of the water from your choices of where to move, and check your PH, maybe then you could avert all the problems that bad water PH has...
Take notes, be detailed....
and
K.I.S.S.....
And, "Good Luck!"