so my plant.. the plant in the 1st post is not a hermi? can a hermi come at 6 weeks into flowering?
I'm no expert, but I gotta tell ya - just from all the pictures of hermi's I've seen on this site, that plant does not look like a hermi. Is there a particular pic that you think shows the balls? Some of the (calyx's?) look big, but they don't appear to be evidence of a hermi. I suppose it's possible it could be seeded, I don't know enough to be able to tell.
Maybe someone more experienced can chime in, but in my opinion (and strangerdude562), it's all girl.
I can't answer your 2nd question. Good luck.