"anyways if there was a system like that users can lie about their age" I suppose they could but I dont know why too many people would do that so I dont think it would be a big problem. Anyhow ,I was just thinking that sometimes I talk beyond my age especially when I am talking about music . I am in the music business so I know a great deal about music from the 60s and even the 50s ,so I may go off on a tangent about that thinking that there may be hundreds of people my age or even 20 years older who might understand many of the groups or songs I am talking about . If I know that only about 10 % or less of the members here are older than me ,then I probably wouldnt bother talking about music from that era as much and might talk more about newer music instead. Music is just one example and Im sure you could think of many other similar topics where it helps to get an idea of the age of the audience you are talking to. Thanks for the happy birthday longbaugh its the day after Christmas . No 44 isnt so old,I often feel younger than I did when I was 14 sometimes and I mean it because i didnt have much to live for then since I was screwing up at school,and things were just looking real bad a lot of the time.