How To Balance Alone Time With Social Time?

Padawanbater2

Padawanbater2

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I'm talking to a girl, I like doing things that are pretty much solitary, like read, work on things outdoors with tools, design things by sketching, sketch random things, play video games, etc. I rarely if at all ever watch TV because of the damn commercials and there's hardly anything that interests me. So the girl asks to 'hang out'. What do we do? I don't want to sit there bored and just watch tv for a couple hours, I'd feel like I'm completely wasting that time and I could be doing something better, I also don't want to just sit there and read or play video games with her there, that would seem neglectful and distant. What's the balance? :shock:
 
blazinkill504

blazinkill504

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if you got a ps3 watch some blu-rays and if you gotta xbox go get some dvd's. id say go hit up one of them redboxes since its a one night date and its a buck to rent a movie for a day get a couple and work that game dude!
 
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imo its hard to say without knowing the girl...
for example my girl is perfectly fine with us hangin around my house with a few of our friends.

But girls always love goin to the movies so thats always a good choice, plus you cant spend every min together so when she is around act like she is around...and when she leaves you still have plenty of time to do you.
 
ganjames

ganjames

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alright take my advice, becuase i'm the type that usually likes to be alone and do things by myself.

Go for a walk, maybe on a trail or by a lake/beach.. it doesn't have to be like some romantic shit, just getting some fresh air and enjoying nature.

if you're not strapped for cash:
history museums
art galleries
any kind of museum

most the time there are museums/galleries that are free to go to, and even if they aren't the prices are really cheap (less than 20 bucks a person)
 
RickyBobby92492

RickyBobby92492

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why not just smoke a j and go for a walk? its always worked for me. its a good chance to converse deeply and really get to know her better. :P seriously.
 
trichromalicious

trichromalicious

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You have to let the momentum build. You need relaxing entertainment so watch a lame show with your girl and she will feel comfortable around you.
 
delvite

delvite

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Padawanbater2 said:
I'm talking to a girl, I like doing things that are pretty much solitary, like read, work on things outdoors with tools, design things by sketching, sketch random things, play video games, etc. I rarely if at all ever watch TV because of the damn commercials and there's hardly anything that interests me. So the girl asks to 'hang out'. What do we do? I don't want to sit there bored and just watch tv for a couple hours, I'd feel like I'm completely wasting that time and I could be doing something better, I also don't want to just sit there and read or play video games with her there, that would seem neglectful and distant. What's the balance? :shock:
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first thing id do is talk to her and find out about her likes/dislikes and find some commen ground.............
 
zvuv

zvuv

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Padawanbater2 said:
I'm talking to a girl, I like doing things that are pretty much solitary, like read, work on things outdoors with tools, design things by sketching, sketch random things, play video games, etc. I rarely if at all ever watch TV because of the damn commercials and there's hardly anything that interests me. So the girl asks to 'hang out'. What do we do? I don't want to sit there bored and just watch tv for a couple hours, I'd feel like I'm completely wasting that time and I could be doing something better, I also don't want to just sit there and read or play video games with her there, that would seem neglectful and distant. What's the balance? :shock:
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Are you ADD? I ask because those are exactly the things I would say. I like to do things on my own. I hate TV because of the commercials and it's boring. I hate to just sit around. I can't relax unless I am moving or engaged in something and I'm never sure that I am doing the right thing in social settings. These are all characteristics of ADD. Just a thought.
 
dannyboy602

dannyboy602

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Take her to THE best place to watch the sunset. It's romantic. She'll think you're romantic and bring a nice bottle of white. Then tell her you only bring special girls there. Just talk. Get into her head a little bit today and tomorrow you'll be getting a little head....hehe
 
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