Keep Your Business to yourself or your...Going to get BUSTED

I have a friend that will not listen to advice.
Now I know I do have a temper and easily snap...but when it comes to freedom one must adhere to strict rules when growing.
Keep your business to yourself,don't introduce people to your grow area and sell out of that same place.
NO disrespect but logic says don't deal to kids or teenagers at any age eg 19.
Do not compromise these rules ...at anytime.


If anyone else has a opinion or comments feel free...
My situation,
Well I went over to be social and smoke ...in the past I have commented that I don't want to meet anyone
I was told my friends daughter was coming over ...not with her boyfriend and some other dude...to
So daughter comes in...says to me who are you ?
My friend promptly answers with my first name
am I just being paranoid or safe?
I feel I'm trying to follow the path of least resistance ....
what do you all think...???

what your worried this girl knows your first name?
Maybe you shouldn't be selling weed out your house if thats what you mean.
As for growing never tell anyone about your grow I know to many ass holes who brag about it but they cant grow for shit anyway so they dont even make it past veg but you could still get hit with cultivation.And I think the whole age snitch thing depends alot on where you live to.

Dude I hate people that are dumb with their shit



Like talking about 'dealin weed' after a class with 40 people in the room

Like dude, I don't even want to be close to you.

The people who are best at growing/moving their veggies, you probably wouldn't even think about them if you made a list of people who MIGHT SMOKE... Seriously


I only deal with people who keep their heads low

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what your worried this girl knows your first name?
Maybe you shouldn't be selling weed out your house if thats what you mean.
As for growing never tell anyone about your grow I know to many ass holes who brag about it but they cant grow for shit anyway so they dont even make it past veg but you could still get hit with cultivation.And I think the whole age snitch thing depends alot on where you live to.

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I don't sell weed anywhere.
as a principle I think it rude to introduce me to people when I have made it known I don't want to get involved in their business....

valhalla88 said:

I don't sell weed anywhere.
as a principle I think it rude to introduce me to people when I have made itr known I don't want to get involved in their business....

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Yeah I definately feel that

Ok, so let me get this straight
You went over to your friends house, her daughter was there with 2 guys, and she only introduced you by your first name to them to be polite.
And your mad because...?

Johnny Retro said:

Ok, so let me get this straight
You went over to your friends house, her daughter was there with 2 guys, and she only introduced you by your first name to them to be polite.
And your mad because...?

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Damn your kind of right, I dont know what the fuck im thinking lol


If it were one of my friends I would just be like, "Just a friend"

Personally, I never give out more information than needed, she didn't really need to know who he was you know?

True that it was only the first name though



I suppose you really shouldn't have been over there considering what he/she (still hazy on that) does out of said location

I'll try this again my friend and I were on the phone and I said are you busy today? or something to that effect...what are you doing today...whatever...
my friend responded well my daughter is coming out...(only daughter) (not two friends with her)
then I say can I stop by...(needed some help so)
I'm sitting there smoking and in comes three teenagers(in the teens means any age with a teen on it okay!)
Then she says who is this all rude and shit.
Then the Mom announces my name instead of just saying a friend.
Again I am upset that she even said my name let alone her daughter brought strangers over...regardless any serious grower knows trhat you don't put your business out there!
And again I have stated to my friend on several occasions...I DO NOT WANT TO MEET ANYONE!!!
REAL CLEAR! I was their to test a harvest thats my job!
So three teenagers upstairs buying, the phone is ringing ...the landlord walks in yelling hello.... hello.... anyone home...all this is going on simutaneously .... now tell me you wouldn't have freaked! A grower does not have traffic @ growspot and you don't let the world know your business and I can't believe peoples mentality these days ....

Lol that sounds crazy man. I'll tell people I grow the ganj...but I never tell them the address or let them come by or anything like that.

GrowingfortheGold said:

Lol that sounds crazy man. I'll tell people I grow the ganj...but I never tell them the address or let them come by or anything like that.

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yeah I feel like our friendship is over ...I can't compromise my freedom because of someone else being a idiot...loose lips sink ships!

I think your philosophy is the only way to fly.

All these fools broadcasting their business all over town are delusional if they think they wont get busted sooner or later.

You can't compromise with your freedom.

Your grow should be like a secret identity. Key word being secret.

When people question me about the quality of my weed. I just say it's what's going around.

The problem with giving friends advice is that if they don't wanna listen you just work yourself up and are setting yourself up to lose a lot of friends. I speak from experience: I had a lot of friends ca 10 years ago and now I have less than 5. My problem is that I was one of the most educated and knowledgeable people in the crowd I hung out with, as well as usually being the oldest. I always tried to share my knowledge and help others learn from my mistakes, but I usually got too much involved. For example I would tell a fiend that I could build him a PC for cheap, but then he gets one from Dell and then I have to fix it 6-12 months later, after it runs like shit. That type of crap used to piss me off and I always seemed to be telling people "I told you so". Nobody wants to hear that, but I am a straight up dude that don't sugar coat it.

I stopped pushing my advice on people after my friend was murdered in a robbery after I had repeatedly asked him to please think of his family and stop dealing with low-lives. I feel that if I hadn't pushed the issue with him just maybe he would have been hanging around with me more, rather than keep getting involved with scumbags. But my know-it-all and I-told-you-so attitude drove him away and I wasn't nearly as close to my buddy as we were all the years growing up together.

Unless you are willing to lose the people in your life that don't take your advice, just keep your advice to yourself or just mention it once but don't push the issue. You'll get a lot less frustrated and they will like you more if you just listen and applaud them for their actions/decisions they make, whether you think it's good or not. Sometimes, well actually most of the time it seems, people just have to learn for themselves. That doesn't mean to let your friends get into big trouble, just think about whether or not the situation is worth the aggravation or possible loss of friendship.

If somebody is not respecting your wishes and broadcasts your business around they are not worth your friendship.

Lil Czr said:

I think your philosophy is the only way to fly.

All these fools broadcasting their business all over town are delusional if they think they wont get busted sooner or later.

You can't compromise with your freedom.

Your grow should be like a secret identity. Key word being secret.

When people question me about the quality of my weed. I just say it's what's going around.

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Thanks for setting these fools straight.
Alot of people think they are safe because of Obamas in office...that fucker will bust you too!
People forget that this plant has been persecuted for thousands of years ...and now they feel safe because of the internet and the mentallity that safety is in numbers ...You let people know your business and you will get screwed or busted robbed whatever....
Thanks again for your comments....
Stay High and safe!

ReelFiles said:

The problem with giving friends advice is that if they don't wanna listen you just work yourself up and are setting yourself up to lose a lot of friends. I speak from experience: I had a lot of friends ca 10 years ago and now I have less than 5. My problem is that I was one of the most educated and knowledgeable people in the crowd I hung out with, as well as usually being the oldest. I always tried to share my knowledge and help others learn from my mistakes, but I usually got too much involved. For example I would tell a fiend that I could build him a PC for cheap, but then he gets one from Dell and then I have to fix it 6-12 months later, after it runs like shit. That type of crap used to piss me off and I always seemed to be telling people "I told you so". Nobody wants to hear that, but I am a straight up dude that don't sugar coat it.

I stopped pushing my advice on people after my friend was murdered in a robbery after I had repeatedly asked him to please think of his family and stop dealing with low-lives. I feel that if I hadn't pushed the issue with him just maybe he would have been hanging around with me more, rather than keep getting involved with scumbags. But my know-it-all and I-told-you-so attitude drove him away and I wasn't nearly as close to my buddy as we were all the years growing up together.

Unless you are willing to lose the people in your life that don't take your advice, just keep your advice to yourself or just mention it once but don't push the issue. You'll get a lot less frustrated and they will like you more if you just listen and applaud them for their actions/decisions they make, whether you think it's good or not. Sometimes, well actually most of the time it seems, people just have to learn for themselves. That doesn't mean to let your friends get into big trouble, just think about whether or not the situation is worth the aggravation or possible loss of friendship.

If somebody is not respecting your wishes and broadcasts your business around they are not worth your friendship.

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Yeah I'm upset because right after I said I didn't want to meet anyone ....BOOM STRANGERS...
I too am fairly smart with a decent IQ and I am a free thinker...I don't want someone to assure me 'I'm safe' or 'he's cool'...I DON'T WANT TO MEET ANYONE...cool or not...
real simple...
people that do not respect others are ...selfish, inconsiderate,hypocritical...
Not my kindred

and I wasn't advising them or pushing anything... I was stating facts...don't want to meet anyone...don't want to join your 18 y/o daughters gangsta mentality...matter of time and they will be busted .
She let to many people know her business and I'm not getting caught up in any conspiracy ....
there are right ways and wrong ways...not just one of each but one or the other real simple!

Johnny Retro said:

Ok, so let me get this straight
You went over to your friends house, her daughter was there with 2 guys, and she only introduced you by your first name to them to be polite.
And your mad because...?

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I was there then the STRANGERS came!

valhalla88 said:

I was there then the STRANGERS came!

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I don't get it why are you afraid to meet strangers?


Why are you afraid to tell people your name?

natrone23 said:

I don't get it why are you afraid to meet strangers?


Why are you afraid to tell people your name?

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if you don't get it by now, you probably won't ,
I won't go into elaborate lengths as to why I don't want to be announced to a room of people...(that aren't holding a cub scouts meeting) that I do not know or wish to know...
geez

I get it. You should chose who you meet. My buddy was killed because he trusted this one girl, and she brought a friend with her one time. That friend she brought along bragged to her boyfriend about how much weed my friend had, and got his gears going. Next thing you know that guy talks to his dirtbag buddies and they decide to rob my friend. Well the robbery went bad and my friend ended up getting killed during the struggle. He never even met any of the guys that did it. Point is you never know who knows about you once strangers get involved.

ReelFiles said:

I get it. You should chose who you meet. My buddy was killed because he trusted this one girl, and she brought a friend with her one time. That friend she brought along bragged to her boyfriend about how much weed my friend had, and got his gears going. Next thing you know that guy talks to his dirtbag buddies and they decide to rob my friend. Well the robbery went bad and my friend ended up getting killed during the struggle. He never even met any of the guys that did it. Point is you never know who knows about you once strangers get involved.

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