NevaSmokedOut
Well-Known Member
does anybody have anything they regret in their lives or something you wish you coulda changed?
I agree with this. Regrets arent bad unless you dwell on themm too much.I have regrets. Such is life. I’m not consumed by them nor do I wish I could go back and change things. If a person doesn’t have regrets for past deeds how can they learn and grow as an individual. Mistakes and regretting those mistakes helps to build character.
For example. I dated a girl back in college. Beautiful girl, long black hair, her family had a bit of Cherokee in them. We dated for 4 years. I loved her very much but treated her pretty bad. It was my first true relationship and I did everything I could to fuck it up. She did everything she could to make it work. She finally wised up and dumped my ass. I regretted my mistreatment of her.
Without regrets I would not have learned a damn thing from the experience. But I did regret it and learned from my mistakes. Now I have a lovely wife and a baby on the way. To this day I carry a small portion of that regret and it helps me be a better person and treat my wife with the respect she deserves.
Regrets aren’t a bad thing. Letting that regret run your life may be but regrets helps us grow.