Starting a poll won't make the pics any less ambiguous. Male and female parts are very easily distinguishable when formed. If it's not clear from a glance, you just need to be patient and it will tell you soon.
i think your right underground being as the hairs not in the pic but now ive looked after leaving it for another few days and i can see signs of a hair growing but thanx for all for your votes and oppinions also.....