My Grow Opp w/Pix & ?.. over all what do the Pros think?! :)

Whats up my fellow farmers!
Big fuckin Noob (Kinda) up in this bitch reporting an updated story on my 2014 grow

3 Girls, roughly 3 to 4 weeks into flowering. 2 indica's 1 sativa
the strain is blue widow (blue dream X white widow)
10 seeds were collected out of a pound, the nug was HELLA DANK so i figured, fuck it lets see what i can do.
out of the 10 seeds 6 survived the germination
1 week later I kept the best looking 3 & gave my side chick and her mom the other 3
good call on my part lol, they got 2 males and one died haha

Nutrients -- iv been running RO water with calmag and connoisseur Part A&B with BigBud additive

any way i got a few of these spiders, i see them surrounding the plants making webs... Friend or foe?
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also got these weird flying things i see every now and then they are fast as hell! can anyone identify them & tell me if they are friend or foe? (second pix brown thing on the leave)

what do u guys think about the sativa shes so tall the buds seem like they are gunna take a while to develop, its getting colder and time is one thing i dont have.. (4th pix)

feed back would be nice

That's a tough one, I remember your story about your sister having the party and everyone seeing your plants. I would wait a week and maybe move them back under the light whenever your home to help them bud. You could always move them back at night or whatever for stealth. Either way if they know you had weed there, and decide they want it, they'll come at night to try and steal it as oppose to day I would think. Anyway though you'll still harvest a few ounces for sure if you leave it there, but next to water light is the most important requirement for a decent yielding plant.

just a rule of thumb..Most spiders are friends unless they have Mite for a last name. the web slingin kind like spida man ALL GOOD!! Ive never fucked w/ any and they aint never fucked w/ my plants.The "moth" looking thin..Id say its a friendly too as theleaves all look good and if there is a few of them..your plant would show signs..aka..holes. The sativa always have taking me longer to flower in my xp.

yea the light deff hits that area for most of the day, ovv not as much as in a wide open field but hopfully good enough, im just nervous about that brown fast bug thing cuz are those the fuckers that cause bud worms?

Not really sure...Ive dealt with "silk worms" as I call them..might be the same thing IDK..they spider web/silk up in buds and leaves But as much as I have and as big as mine get..for me i dont worry bout a nug here and there...I do have moths on mine in the mornin drinkin mourning dew
If anything leave the spiders alone as your in their areaa and not the other way around and they will catch most of the harmful ones and have supper!

The brown thing is a leaf hopper. They don't cause much harm and most pesticide seams to have no effect. They suck juices out of the stems and leave water drops. All though spiders are good the webs leave a mess. Specially Black window webs. Unless you want to get bit I would probably get rid of them. Sativas take a long time so that's why it looks so far behind.