NEW UPDATE - MALE? pollen sacks?

it started off with having pistils but now i think these are pollen sacks. i have a smaller plant next to it and im pretty sure its a female so i dont want the male to fuck it it.
help.

im pretty sure thats a male...looks like seeds to me...but its h ard to tell cuz its really blury but my guess would b male

Looks like a blurry male to me!

Looks to be a boy from the blurry pic.

Yep. male plant.