Your plants should grow alright under florescents, but if you need a half descent yield you'll need a MH/HPS light. As you are only experimenting, the florescents will do. The florescents are good for seedlings and clones, which dont need a lot of intense light.
MH are the best for growing the plant, and the HPS is good for the flowering of the plant.
You cant sex a cannabis plant untill you see preflowers. Then put it under 12/12 light, it will take around 2/3 weeks before you see the true sex of your baby.
I take it you're growing in soil. If you are, you should go to the soil section, they will talk you through your grow. But you need to do a bit of homework yourself. Go to the FAQ section, on the top left of this forum, and have a wee read over the basics. Nobody really likes having to explain the basics to anyone, when they could go read it for themselves.
Hope that helps.