My mother only had three children, three boys..me and my two brothers...my youngest brother who is 17 just told me and only me that he just found out he knocked up his girlfriend. as the oldest brother, 23, and none of us sons have any kids.....how should i react to this, i want to get on his ass, but i also dont want to make the situation worse. should i just congratulate him and help him to get motivated, or just knock his lights out? it really does tweek me out.