If the leaves look like they're clawing but aren't exactly exhibiting N toxicity, does that possibly mean the roots are too wet too often? Like, not quite overwatering but borderline?
Ive seen single leaflets wilt out dead and rest of plant not a thing wrong with it. No clue what causes it...i have seen what you have from windy days. If it it was Nitro issue i would think whole plant would display symptoms. Maybe she just woke up angry at you.