OK guys. Im pretty high right now but theres one thing that keeps popping up in the back of my thoughts all day and night.
Alright, I knew this girl for a few months at a job I had until recently. Things were going pretty sweet between us.
I dont know what it was about being with her. She made me feel a lot better although she was brutally honest with me at times about things I did and have done
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She also has her own swagger, and a loud personality. She attracts people like moths to a flame. Everything she does strikes me in some way like the way she moves when her favourite songs comes on. The way we argue about what music we should play when we worked together. The way she tells me off for doing a poor job (which has saved me in the past). The way we can talk for hours about who knows what.
It was a pretty cool relationship. Shes extremely pretty, shes got a good job, her own place and her own car and an awesome personality that everyone LOVES. OK. So we were pretty dysfunctional as well because we were always teasing eachother and making eachother laugh and at times mad at eachother for whatever reason. It was kind of like a simon/paula relationship lol. In fact, that describes it very accurately.
I noticed myself becoming jealous slowly when I saw her with other guys having the time of her life. I had found out she had gone out with several guys in our workplace and that was a little annoying. These guys were all older than me, and I felt a little annoyed at this point. Especially one guy who admittedly, is smoother than me with the girls, which is pretty smooth.
The other guys try to lower my respect when they see me with her. But it didn't keep me down for long, I kept trying to keep our special relationship going without her losing respect for me.
Shes 22 and im 18. Ther guys that took her out were over 25 and had more respect than I did in the workplace. I do have a little game. But I became frustrated because I wouldn't be able to take getting rejected by her after shes gone out with all these guys. The news would spread quickly and I would lose all self respect.
I am now jobless, still living with my parents, but I have my own nice car. I plan on getting to the same playing field again and then learning "the game" more before I ask her out. She is one girl that you wouldn't want to miss out on. And ive spent a lot of time with her and im convinced that she is definately the women of my dreams. I do NOT want to ruin a shot with her.
What do you guys think? Is it cool that I want to get myself on the same level or higher than the guys that have taken her out? Am i being a wuss (for not wanting to ask her out while I got nothin?)? Do I need to learn how to get the respect of all other males around me at all times?
I really want this girl. Im not desperate. I could get on without her. The crush has worn off, but I know I have a special place for her in my heart if she ever comes my way.
Alright, I knew this girl for a few months at a job I had until recently. Things were going pretty sweet between us.
I dont know what it was about being with her. She made me feel a lot better although she was brutally honest with me at times about things I did and have done
. She also has her own swagger, and a loud personality. She attracts people like moths to a flame. Everything she does strikes me in some way like the way she moves when her favourite songs comes on. The way we argue about what music we should play when we worked together. The way she tells me off for doing a poor job (which has saved me in the past). The way we can talk for hours about who knows what.
It was a pretty cool relationship. Shes extremely pretty, shes got a good job, her own place and her own car and an awesome personality that everyone LOVES. OK. So we were pretty dysfunctional as well because we were always teasing eachother and making eachother laugh and at times mad at eachother for whatever reason. It was kind of like a simon/paula relationship lol. In fact, that describes it very accurately.
I noticed myself becoming jealous slowly when I saw her with other guys having the time of her life. I had found out she had gone out with several guys in our workplace and that was a little annoying. These guys were all older than me, and I felt a little annoyed at this point. Especially one guy who admittedly, is smoother than me with the girls, which is pretty smooth.
The other guys try to lower my respect when they see me with her. But it didn't keep me down for long, I kept trying to keep our special relationship going without her losing respect for me.
Shes 22 and im 18. Ther guys that took her out were over 25 and had more respect than I did in the workplace. I do have a little game. But I became frustrated because I wouldn't be able to take getting rejected by her after shes gone out with all these guys. The news would spread quickly and I would lose all self respect.
I am now jobless, still living with my parents, but I have my own nice car. I plan on getting to the same playing field again and then learning "the game" more before I ask her out. She is one girl that you wouldn't want to miss out on. And ive spent a lot of time with her and im convinced that she is definately the women of my dreams. I do NOT want to ruin a shot with her.
What do you guys think? Is it cool that I want to get myself on the same level or higher than the guys that have taken her out? Am i being a wuss (for not wanting to ask her out while I got nothin?)? Do I need to learn how to get the respect of all other males around me at all times?
I really want this girl. Im not desperate. I could get on without her. The crush has worn off, but I know I have a special place for her in my heart if she ever comes my way.
. guys are assholes..even though we (me anyway) really do want good things to happen. i guess thats why u start out dating instead of going straight to marrage.