herm?

So I'm trying to reverse this little Dimension 369 girl from Brothers Grimm so she can plant bang one of the branches on my Tangie Dream Auto that is a Barney's Farm freak show. She's like 10 inches tall going into flower but she's thicccccc. The stems are like ropes and she has bud sites all up...

Help please! Im growing 3 plants indoors, i put them into flower (12:12) 2 weeks ago and please see the photos. They are definetly growing white hairs and plants are healthy, but ive noticed what i think looks like seeds, or maybe theyre hust the buds very early before getting hair? Im not sure...

It doesn’t look exactly like a herm but it’s growing from such a weird location that I better make sure. Ppl on Reddit thinks it’s a female flower, but I’m not fully convinced since it is growing from where those single calyx/bract usually form.