how do i make my ex a friend with beneft?

NoobgrowerLbc

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She broke up with me after 1 month saying she not ready for relationship but still want me in her life so she want to be friends. yesterday i came over and we hug and kiss in bed, she still let me grab her breast and i even and my hand above her vag. No resistant but i didnt go further becuase i was tryin to get back with her. How do i be friends with benefits? Do i mention it or just do it?

Now that i think about it im not trying to get back but make her a friend with benefit till something better comes along.
 

curious2garden

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She broke up with me after 1 month saying she not ready for relationship but still want me in her life so she want to be friends. yesterday i came over and we hug and kiss in bed, she still let me grab her breast and i even and my hand above her vag. No resistant but i didnt go further becuase i was tryin to get back with her. How do i be friends with benefits? Do i mention it or just do it?

Now that i think about it im not trying to get back but make her a friend with benefit till something better comes along.
Stop using people.
 

ginwilly

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I've been there and thought I had the perfect plan.

I told her that I realize now I was confusing lust with love. I said the sex was so good that I realized I wanted more of it. The way it made me feel to be with her was unlike anything I had ever experienced and I confused that new feeling with love.

It didn't work for me, but surely one of them will fall for it;-).

Good luck man, oh, and you can't "make" a woman do anything. She'll have to think it's her idea to work.
 

chewberto

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I usually grab the girls hand and put it on my wiener! If she pulls her hand away, you just found out that she will not be of any benefit to you! Good luck friend
 

ebgood

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Cut her off. Ignoring a girl is the quickest way to get in her sometimes

Or just cut her off, keep her cut off and find new willing pussy
 

blowincherrypie

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we hug and kiss in bed, she still let me grab her breast and i even and my hand above her vag. No resistant but i didnt go further becuase i was tryin to get back with her.
I'm confused.. What you're describing is a friend without any real benefit.

Shoulda finger banged her (what movie was that from??) lol
 

BarnBuster

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Would this be the same person?:

First date i went on with her I kissed her on the cheek. Second date i kissed her on the lips and third date we started making out. I have been seeing and talking to her daily and day 4 we started acting like a couple by calling each other babe and cuddling. she starting to buy me stuff like small surprises like food,drinks,gloves. she feels we moving too fast because we only known each other for 8 days. yesterday after we went out I forgot to text her before sleeping and she started acting bitchy the next day. keep in mind i havent asked her to be my girlfriend yet.
you sound like youre 15
 

redeyedfrog

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next time do her and then dont call, when she finally gets unto you tell her your confused and dont know what you want...
same shit shes pulling basically
 

vostok

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how do i make my ex a friend with beneft? ...easy pay her ! ....lol include a tip ...lol
 

SunnyJim

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I can't help but feel you wouldn't be in this 'friend-zone' predicament if you had simply followed my advice in your previous thread:

https://www.rollitup.org/toke-n-talk/764767-am-i-moving-too-fast.html

On your next date, go for broke and show her your junk. You might want to throw in an ice cold one-liner too, like: "Is this slow enough for you?" Wait a couple seconds, then hit her with a wink ;).
As luck would have it, the universe has aligned on a cosmic level or whatever, and you're in a prime position to effectuate my earlier suggestion. Go for the 'Naked Man' approach. Chicks really dig dudes who hang their balls out there.

Ladies, back me up.
 
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