Running her mouth

[panhead]

im inexperienced in life. im only 21, but id say (without being big headed) a mature 21 year old with brains, intelligence and a bright future.

but can i ask u something pan head.

u really think that she is doing it bcoz she cant have her way. when i was reading ur post it made something trigger in my mind.

- shes pregnant, shes not seen any of her friends for months bcoz she cant drink. of her friends are the piss head types and get in a mess on the weekend kidna thing.

- u think shes just jealous bcoz she has to stay sober?

and.... what do u think about my grow

Dude,look what you just wrote asking me,she cant see her friends because she cant drink,her friends get hammered & get into shit on the weekends,to me this means she liked to drink & party with them,you also said in an above post that "she cant smoke any lonmger",this also says she used to smoke.

Now she's pregnant & cant do any partying at all,and guess what,any partying you do will be thrown in your face as being irresponsible,she cant so she will run you down if you do.

Im not woman bashing here either,the bullshit she's pulling on you is not how people treat people they care about,ultimatums are not issued over such small matters & should be reserved for severe acts.

So when you ask do i really think she's doint it because she cant have her way i have to say yes,she chose to start a life with you,now she's at mommas house,waiting till you cave in to her DEMANDS,and whats a real pointer as to her intentions is what she's demanding you stop she only recently stopped doing,then the things she stopped doing she only stopped because she was forced due to maternity,now she's pissed cause you dont share her boredom.

If at this point in the relationship she's allready back to momma's house she's trying to set a president,one which she will learn from the outcome,if you cave in & kiss her ass the very next time she's pissed at you you'll see the same thing from her,im leaving cause your a childish asshole,this will continue.

There are 2 types of people,those who try to CONTROL every situation & those who roll with it & make the best of whats gong on,which one is she ?

 

[pandabear]

dude u gotta know a few things its not a good time to battle when the gurl is preg and soo far along they get hyper emotional and very protective,

its called nesting, u can never win at this time trust me, this should be your plan of action


"honey I know your going through a stressful time with our baby and stuff, i didnt want to upset you you and the baby are my 1# proirity thats why i took the plants outside in the first place.

i want you to know I will stop the grow now as I dont want you to be stressed or anything u need your rest honey, stop flippin out and relax baby

tell her this in no way means you are capitulating in anyway but u dont want her to stress so in the interest of that you will wait because you love her

and just shut it down until the baby comes, the after a few months just start it again, dont even tell her and keep it locked she will know u started again but just refuse to talk about it with her if shes unresonable cuz shes too irrational and not understanding to your needs and your feeling even tho you were to hers and stopped the grow while she was preg, and just ignor her when she mentions it

it just may work

then again i had to put my gurl on meds to get her to chill out, or I would have started callin the lawyers

 

[DWR]

Got a friend who smokes ? lives alone ? got no clue how to grow but would like to have free weed ?

Ask him..... or her..... Would be an option otherwise you got to sell that stuff man..... You got a child coming along... maybe its just best to ditch the whole grow thing

 

[DWR]

"honey I know your going through a stressful time with our baby and stuff, i didnt want to upset you you and the baby are my 1# proirity thats why i took the plants outside in the first place.

i want you to know I will stop the grow now as I dont want you to be stressed or anything u need your rest honey, stop flippin out and relax baby"


Now thats good....

 

[pandabear]

woh wait a min i didnt know she gave you an ultimatum and went to her mommas house,

never mind you cant cave now pan is right you should never cave to any ultimatums

now what you do is stop the grow but dont tell her you did and tell her to grow up and that if its like this right now why the hell would you wanna get married,

anyway dont upset her too much, if you cave make sure it is clear you are only doing it because she preg and shouldnt be stressed like this, unless its all an act


but ya stop the grow but dont tell her, that way its like a test see if she tells everyone about your grow, the beuty of it is your wont have one goin on if the shit hits the fan

 

[smokeh]

"honey I know your going through a stressful time with our baby and stuff, i didnt want to upset you you and the baby are my 1# proirity thats why i took the plants outside in the first place.

i want you to know I will stop the grow now as I dont want you to be stressed or anything u need your rest honey, stop flippin out and relax baby

ive told her this but still no response. i think im just gonna 'nuke' my plants and get them out of the way.

sticking them all on 12/12 flowerin and veg lights. see what kinda bud i get. then its over.

if im gonna lose them anyway i might as well get a tiny bit of bud for allmy effort and research and learning.

 

[pandabear]

think about it this way this is just the beginning, once u have the baby and stuff you guys will be too busy to sweat the small stuff she can go party with he friends and you will be able to grow your shit

 

[smokeh]

well my lights went off at 1:30pm from a 18/6 cycle. there due to go back on at 7:30pm.

i think at that time im gonna add the other 4 lights and change to 12/12 an nuke the bitches. hopefully ill be able to see sex soon and be able to chuck some males out. that might make her think im getting rid and just keep nuking the females for long as i can

edit: and im not caving in. not yet anyway. im gonna pick up a gram from my m8 2night, take it home an just relax without trying to think about it.

get some xbox on the go, maybe few beers. night in alone,lol.

 

[fdd2blk]

wow, willing to give up your girl and first child for 4 seedlings under a couple CFL's? you, my friend, are the #1 die hard!!!!!!!!

kill the fuckin' plants and take care of your responsibilities. get off the damn computer and go find your girl.

hope it all works out.

 

[pandabear]

hell ya bro u play halo3?




thats a good idea, when the males are showing tell her that they all turned out to be male and act defeated, then grow your gurls in peace

 

[fdd2blk]

how much pot can you get off these plants? even if they all turn female? an ounce? maybe 2? is that worth your girl and first child? i'm in awe. i love pot and all but, wow .......

 

[lw08]

Do you even hear what any of you are telling this dude?

First of all, if I found out my husband was on here talking about our relationship to a bunch of strangers I'd dump his ass and go find a real man that could talk to me and work the problem out.

Number two, why should he dump her. Why doesn't she dump his ass. Give him his freedom since he wants to have this stupid ass adrenaline rush of growing something illegal (which I think is fucking stupid that it is illegal even though I dont even smoke the shit!). Dam dude, grow up. Women don't need a dam man...we can work and take care of us and kids! Trust me I've done it and did a damn good job of it! And if you need more money...go get another dam job!

Number three, when a woman is pregnant the "mothering" instinct goes into effect FULL SWING! Which I"m sure none of you have ever taken into consideration. You have no idea what emotions a woman has when pregnant. Not to mention who the hell wants to be with someone that is dealing with something illegal that could get him and her put in jail and the baby taken away. Hell yea, I'd say she has a right to be upset. Not to mention you lied to her about it being vegetables?! Who the hell grows veggies in a dam shed anyway?

Also, a marriage or even just a relationship is about compromise! Not about YOU or just HER. You give up things for her and vice versa. And if you are not ready for that maybe you are not ready for being a dad. Because you think its BS having to give up things for your girl then how do you think it is with kids? I think you have a bad case of "YOU NEED TO GROW THE FUCK UP AND GET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT".

 

[korvette1977]

Now I would pack up shop and move ..Otherwise your new place might be a 6' x9' studio. with 24 hr security..

 

[smokeh]

wow, willing to give up your girl and first child for 4 seedlings under a couple CFL's? you, my friend, are the #1 die hard!!!!!!!!

kill the fuckin' plants and take care of your responsibilities. get off the damn computer and go find your girl.

hope it all works out.

im stuck in the office till minimum 5pm.

an ye i play halo 3. not as much nowa days though, hardly had time to play games.

im still playing multiplayer COD4 and guitar hero 3.

bored coz i completed all my games and i got no xbox live - only just moved in last week and no had chance to sort out internet connection.

 

[lw08]

wow, willing to give up your girl and first child for 4 seedlings under a couple CFL's? you, my friend, are the #1 die hard!!!!!!!!

kill the fuckin' plants and take care of your responsibilities. get off the damn computer and go find your girl.

hope it all works out.

I'm telling you...he is not ready for a kid. I think she's stupid if she goes back to his ass.

 

[fdd2blk]

Do you even hear what any of you are telling this dude?

First of all, if I found out my husband was on here talking about our relationship to a bunch of strangers I'd dump his ass and go find a real man that could talk to me and work the problem out.

Number two, why should he dump her. Why doesn't she dump his ass. Give him his freedom since he wants to have this stupid ass adrenaline rush of growing something illegal (which I think is fucking stupid that it is illegal even though I dont even smoke the shit!). Dam dude, grow up. Women don't need a dam man...we can work and take care of us and kids! Trust me I've done it and did a damn good job of it! And if you need more money...go get another dam job!

Number three, when a woman is pregnant the "mothering" instinct goes into effect FULL SWING! Which I"m sure none of you have ever taken into consideration. You have no idea what emotions a woman has when pregnant. Not to mention who the hell wants to be with someone that is dealing with something illegal that could get him and her put in jail and the baby taken away. Hell yea, I'd say she has a right to be upset. Not to mention you lied to her about it being vegetables?! Who the hell grows veggies in a dam shed anyway?

Also, a marriage or even just a relationship is about compromise! Not about YOU or just HER. You give up things for her and vice versa. And if you are not ready for that maybe you are not ready for being a dad. Because you think its BS having to give up things for your girl then how do you think it is with kids? I think you have a bad case of "YOU NEED TO GROW THE FUCK UP AND GET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT".

you just got super repped on your first post.


"i do it because it's illegal." unbelievable.

 

[smokeh]

well u know what. bollox to u all. all of u giving me different opinions. ill decide myself.

 

[fdd2blk]

well u know what. bollox to u all. all of u giving me different opinions. ill decide myself.

child or marijuana? that's a toughy.

 

[fdd2blk]

the first time i held my son ................... wow ..................... they don't make that kind of drug.

 

[smokeh]

"i do it because it's illegal." unbelievable.

i dont think every1 has read the full thread.

ur taking it out of context.

im growing it bcoz growing other stuff, 'legal' stuff is just boring. and ofc personal use like many ppl here and to make a few quid on the side.