child support
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dr.gonzo1
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Nah, sorry man. Can't help. Seems steep when the kids at yours a lot. Can you go to court and renegotiate or something?
tightpockt
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Sounds like she should be paying you child support
Commander Strax
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My fucking cunt of an ex left, but I kept my daughter
charface
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My guess is Dad wasn't a day laborer?
joe macclennan
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the wifes ex is supposed to pay 250/month for two kids or 125/month per kid. ...yet this pos still can't do it.
almost 18k behind WTF?
been to prison twice for it and doesn't give a fuck. Oh and did I mention that he's a total fucking loser and has never provided the most basic things like taking to doctors or school supplies or clothes?
some people should be castrated at birth
edit: and did I mention that he makes close to 50k a year? as a cash business contractor.
He doesn't pay just out of spite
almost 18k behind WTF?
been to prison twice for it and doesn't give a fuck. Oh and did I mention that he's a total fucking loser and has never provided the most basic things like taking to doctors or school supplies or clothes?
some people should be castrated at birth
edit: and did I mention that he makes close to 50k a year? as a cash business contractor.
He doesn't pay just out of spite
Commander Strax
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I thought you had two moms??
joe macclennan
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I actually considered shooting this pos and his new squeeze,Or drugging them and burning their house down. as they constantly make problems for us and the kids.
....and then I thought of how it would effect the kids. and chose not too.
true story
BigEasy1
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She fucked him.........a few times. What's that say about her?
joe macclennan
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she was young and dumb
charface
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Trust me I get it.
I still hate her but my kid is broken for real. Was alread schizophrenic.
Anyway.
Be careful what we wish for eh.
dr.gonzo1
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That's deep man. Hit me right in the hurts.
i do obviously had to come from somewhere though
kinddiesel
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I have friends that pay it average is 150 a week. and why the hell you paying the x ? money take her to court she needs to get a job fuck that. shes not your wife any longer .
joe macclennan
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ahhh, yes! pay the lawyers instead of providing for your child....that's the answer
keysareme
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I don't pay it myself, but our mom receives support funds twice a month which she divides and splits. I was accepting a portion of it, but took myself out of that a few weeks back, stopped accepting any of those funds again for the third time in 4 years. Just does not feel good to be taking these funds. It's allowed for a complacency vibe to shroud this house, both our mom and older brother do not work, younger brother and I, do. While I do 'understand', I do not 'agree' or 'support' most of the perception in this house, I am all about being able to support myself, not waiting for child support money to arrive so I can spend it all and wait for more. I don't have anyone, that I know of at least, to talk to about this, so for the past two years I have climbed up and down the mountain, being so close to moving out on my own a few times, and having a few thousand dollars saved away to live out on my own, make my own home, my own family, all to just let this inner feeling arise, that I would be abandoning my family here. Mom went from being a 35 year school nurse, active in society, engaged with people, to where she is now, no car, no income, no job, no goals, total regression, and of course, I've allowed myself to take on some of that and feel responsible, that "had I just done this" or "had I just stuck with that one job" (i had five jobs in 2013) I have established a viscous cycle, that right when I am taking off again, the inner feelings of guilt and failure arise trying to sway me from moving forwards, cause I know that both my older brother and mom are their own human beings, and are indeed responsible as such. Just cause they are my family does not mean I am the reason for their current condition, nor is it any vibe for me to trip over. I've run myself around this for nearly 3 years now. While I am doing a lot better, in not being swayed by the environment here, I still allow myself to look back and get stuck for a bit, then I turn around and climb the mountain again.