right on bro, lots of people said I couldn't do things and that just motivates me more. I'll tell u something that has motivated me for 11 years now. I have a minimum wage job with a 250 dollar a week child support order for ONE child. I don't mind paying, I love my daughter and need to help support her. But in the end, 250 dollars a week is a full weeks pay at minimum wage BEFORE taxes, so I'm always short. I do the best I can, When my 80 hour check comes, its for usually around 80 stinking dollars. I live very frugally, have a beat up car and a small place to live. I've had my back up against the wall for 11 years now. I have a minimum of 5 years left, possibly 9 if my daughter goes to college. Both of my parents are dead so I have NO ONE to fall back on. But NO ONE will call me a dead beat dad. And if they do, I'd like to see them try to survive what I have endured for the last 11 years now. I don't have cable tv, just plain old air waves with local stations. I can barely keep my phone on and my car, rent,electric, and water bills paid. I'm fortunate that I work in a restaurant because that's how I feed myself. NEVER give up hope, always pray, and always be good to other people unless they are jerks to you.