Sometimes things are said to be hurtful HOPING that the person you are directing the hurt to can see how it feels. Winter Women really has some fucked up views towards people of color, so I do believe she is only getting what she puts out.
I try not to debate or argue like that, but I can understand why it is done on RIU. Gets kinda funky on this site at times. Hell you should know you used to mod.
used to? what happened? lol..
and yes, i understand, kind of, his reasoning for doing what he does, to a point, but if you act like you're better than by not being a racist or w/e, than turn around and use the c word or call someone a fat ass, well, it kind of takes away the very point you were trying to prove in the first place, of course, imvho.. read some of the things he calls sheskunk..
some people are fat, big deal, my mom wasn't always the skinniest of people during certain times of her life, doesn't make her any less loving or any less of a person imvho..