but the thing is i didn't give smartass remakres, you just thought i did, and then blew it out of proportion , im 40 years old on Friday, if got alot of people how know me and respect me to the max,im a well connected person (if you know what i mean ) and know the meaning of treat those like you would be treated yourself,, and have never ever in my whole life been miss understood like this and have never had a problem with enyone i know ever,,, i wonder if its just the way i type, but then your friend rosey said to me "i knew you were a nice guy its just that the guys in hear are a bit werry, she was right,,well done rosey,, well done