Wikidbchofthewst
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The Fox and the Hound was a Disney animation. I love Disney movies
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Wikidbchofthewst
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Never seen it.
Blow?
Blow?
Wikidbchofthewst
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Damn good movie!
American History X
American History X
Wikidbchofthewst
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Another good one, lol.
Did you ever see that movie The Creature from the Black Lagoon? I don't know why I just thought of it, but it popped into my head....that movie used to freak me out
Did you ever see that movie The Creature from the Black Lagoon? I don't know why I just thought of it, but it popped into my head....that movie used to freak me out
Wikidbchofthewst
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I loved that movie. When I was a kid, I spent a lot of time with my dad's mom, and she was always watching scary movies.
sallygreen
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Lacy, Im still thinking about you and your situation. Love is conditional. If love is unconditional, what the heck is causing all the divorces? Lacy, How you feel about the way he treats you is going to determine how you respond to him. If you feel good because of his actions towards you, then your going to try to make him feel the same way. You are going to do the same for him. Right? If at some point you no longer feel good about the way he treats you, You may tell him or you may continue trying to make him feel good in hopes that things will change, but at some point if things have not gone back to the way they were, you are going to stop trying. And then where is the relationship? Your hubby may be deluding himself with a unconditional love dangerous fantasy. He may believe that since you loved him at the start of the relationship, now your emotions will never change. Therefore taking your feelings for granted and quit doing the things that at the beginning of the relationship made him successful. Trust me Lacy, I've done this type of stuff to get rid of women I was dating. No more affection, quit with the surprises and spontaneity, let the sex get boring, stop dating, etc. It would be a complete shock if you suddenly decided to break it off... And he would never be able to get over the fact you dumped him. Putting myself in his shoes and totally going out of my character, I as a man would think that somewhere deep inside of your heart, you still loved me. And there is still a chance. If we could just have a little time together, it would reemerge and everything would be just like it was at the beginning of our relationship. I'm not sure If you want to hear this or not but Im just pouring my heart out to you.
THe whole long paragraph can be summed up in "guys get their hopes up and think you are going to sleep with themif you accept a drink at bar, try to be nice"
Stoney McFried
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Just get the rabbit, Lacy. My money is also on you busting an ovary in under 5 minutes.
ChaoticMetal
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"Love is conditional. If love is unconditional, what the heck is causing all the divorces? "
Personally I think it's a combination of lazy people and society's need for instant gratification. If anything takes actually work, and isn't all fun, the majority of people these days will just give up and look for the utopian relationship. Not even to mention that so many people try to convince themselves that 1. Sex isn't important in a relationship 2. You have say goodbye to having sex with anybody but you partner. and 3. A couple shouldn't argue. If did that our relationship would have been over a long time ago. I have never been closer or felt I could share everything with my girlfriend until I met my Tig. People say we would never last having an open sexual relationship, but it's not like we cheat on each other. To us there is a difference in making love and straight up sex, which is just physical fun. Bringing in a friend to make things more interesting gives a feeling of excitement like when the relationship started, and it lasts, making the sex with just the 2 of us even better cause we can recall out crazy adventures lol. And come on, please show me the couple that never fights and isn't totally fucked up on the inside, doesn't happen often.
Personally I think it's a combination of lazy people and society's need for instant gratification. If anything takes actually work, and isn't all fun, the majority of people these days will just give up and look for the utopian relationship. Not even to mention that so many people try to convince themselves that 1. Sex isn't important in a relationship 2. You have say goodbye to having sex with anybody but you partner. and 3. A couple shouldn't argue. If did that our relationship would have been over a long time ago. I have never been closer or felt I could share everything with my girlfriend until I met my Tig. People say we would never last having an open sexual relationship, but it's not like we cheat on each other. To us there is a difference in making love and straight up sex, which is just physical fun. Bringing in a friend to make things more interesting gives a feeling of excitement like when the relationship started, and it lasts, making the sex with just the 2 of us even better cause we can recall out crazy adventures lol. And come on, please show me the couple that never fights and isn't totally fucked up on the inside, doesn't happen often.
Twistyman
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Yep..Laughed like f*** when he was drunk....and sad shit...Waaa
They all have the Waaa factor...
All those old horror movies did it all without graphic stuff..you'd just look at the actors and freak out... Bela Lugosi, Dracula..Charles Laughten, hunchback..thats a sad one... Boris Karloff frankenstein..
Ahhh ...the proverbial popped cork........
Stoney McFried
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Lotta movies have made me cry...I grew up in a don't cry house too. I don't like to cry around folks, and I don't like folks bawling all over me either. If someone does see me crying at a movie and says something, though, I don't get embarrassed. I just tell them to fuck off.
sallygreen
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Also, Lacy you have to understand that It's a tight wire we as men have to walk. I personally think that the trickiest situation I have with my girlfriend's is when to give her positive affirmation, and when to keep hold of my "guy thing attitude". Im not good at being the "nice guy" who will always affirm you. By this, I mean, telling you exactly what I think you want to hear, fawning over you, giving gifts, and generally being mr. positive. Its hard for me to never disagrees with a women, or try to find the perfect gentlemanly thing to say all the time. Actually, I rarely verbalize my admiration for her. I assume the subconscious message: "I like being with you because you're up to my standards." Is received but I withhold all the flowery speech. There's always a little bit I hold back, waiting to see if she does measure up personality wise. But Im not a complete ass. I do have a exact time when I affirm her. And it is done out a position of strength. I wait until I get to know her, and I've established that I am the guy, she's the girl, and Im in control. I preffer this on a day when she's feeling a little bit low and she's making self depreciating comments about herself such as "I cant seem to do anything right lately." I make sure it's not a episode of her just fishing for admiration or control. But when she genuinely needs a strong man right now. This is the moment that I become husband material for her. I'm not going to go into detail exactly how I do this but I can tell you that once Im there in her moment of crisis at the right time, she definetely develops an emotional attachment to me.
Wikidbchofthewst
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How is any of that supposed to help Lacy?
Wikidbchofthewst
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Sallygreen, that whole paragraph....what was the point? Could you sum it up in 10 words or less?
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