I'm 41 years and still trying to figure out what in means to be a black man living in America. Who knew all I had to do was ask a white guy.
It doesn't mean anything. The best way forward is to let go.
That bad shit happened to your daddy, and it was done by my daddy.
The bad you've dealt with, and I've dealt out is small, almost insignificant by comparison.
There are very few people our ages that have faced major obstacles.
A friend of mine owns a business. He hired a black guy and had to fire him. He found out the black guy held onto a fear of discrimination.
He fired him because when you go looking for discrimination you'll find it and my friend wanted to avoid a hassle.