Random Jibber Jabber Thread

Flaming Pie

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leading him on some. "for awhile" + brief fantasy talk.
well written weird story...

protect what you have. why is yr friend rockin the boat-
sorry not my biz. dry-humps aren't cheatin, (lol?)

really -dog- only got with one married woman, milf impulses in 20's.

I believe most ppl have the ability to be telepathic, be careful
I just said what came to mind. There was more said, butmy crappy computer won't let me type fast.

He probably felt he couldn't discuss these dreams with his GF. Eventually tho, he will understand that a dream is nothing to be afraid to discuss.

My husband listens to my weird sexual dreams. They don't threaten him. he knows about my sexual fantasies and once in a while will tell me a story with my sexual fantasy while doing things to me.
 

Flaming Pie

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Happy 9 years!!! Woo hoo! (I CAN'T READ - haha)

I have only cheated on one guy, and he was a twat. If anyone in the world deserved it - he did. hahaha

But - I really really really don't want to ever cheat on my current boyfreind/ life partner. I never want to.

And if he remands completely sexually fulfilling, and doting, and loving, forever - then it will be easy.

But FUCK - when you fight? When shit is said in anger? When you're NOT having sex everyday?

I don't know - I'd like to say I think it's going to be easy. But - it's fucking not.

I think about sex, a lot of the time. Sure - in my head and shit - but still....it's there.

Do you have any pointers? The no alcohol one is key. I myself, am not attracted to everyone, I'm picky. And I don't have any problem saying no, or keeping myself out of "risky" situations.

But - I know myself. And if I am not fully satisfied - I will end up putting myself in a situation, and I will NOT want to get out of it. At least that's what happened the last time.
Maintain proper distance. lol. Also realize that fantasies are fine as long as they remain fantasies. Actually acting on them can hurt your partner, your self image, and most likely NOT fill the need you were looking for.
 

Yessica...

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I just said what came to mind. There was more said, butmy crappy computer won't let me type fast.

He probably felt he couldn't discuss these dreams with his GF. Eventually tho, he will understand that a dream is nothing to be afraid to discuss.

My husband listens to my weird sexual dreams. They don't threaten him. he knows about my sexual fantasies and once in a while will tell me a story with my sexual fantasy while doing things to me.
Nail on the head there!

Openness - is the most important thing.

Therein lies a slight problem with myself and my guy.

I - am VERY open about things. He - is not.

The sex is great - really.

But - he's not really comfortable TALKING about it.

Soooo...yeah. I hate to say I want to change someone....

But I think that if you're going to put your dick somewhere - you should be able to discuss it. No?
 

Yessica...

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Maintain proper distance. lol. Also realize that fantasies are fine as long as they remain fantasies. Actually acting on them can hurt your partner, your self image, and most likely NOT fill the need you were looking for.
I have a very bad first and only example of cheating.

It was the BEST. hahaha - I really kind of hated my ex by that point (although he was not an ex at the time), and we were NOT having sex, so yeah - it was a shit-sammy of a situation to begin with.

But the cheating - was the best sex I had ever had.

I will NOT cheat on my boyfriend. But a lot of that is because, I fucking know I can't get in a fight with my boyf, then go out to the bar and get wasted and hang out at a previous Lova's house or something.

That would be CRAZY.

I can NOT cheat - I know how to Not cheat just fine. I've been NOT cheating on dudes my whole life.

But - I worry one day - the desire for sex is going to outweigh my feelings on cheating and hurting people.

I don't know - guys do it all the time. What are they thinking about?

If it was an OPEN relationship - do you still want to cheat?

Never been in one of those...
 

Flaming Pie

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I have a very bad first and only example of cheating.

It was the BEST. hahaha - I really kind of hated my ex by that point (although he was not an ex at the time), and we were NOT having sex, so yeah - it was a shit-sammy of a situation to begin with.

But the cheating - was the best sex I had ever had.

I will NOT cheat on my boyfriend. But a lot of that is because, I fucking know I can't get in a fight with my boyf, then go out to the bar and get wasted and hang out at a previous Lova's house or something.

That would be CRAZY.

I can NOT cheat - I know how to Not cheat just fine. I've been NOT cheating on dudes my whole life.

But - I worry one day - the desire for sex is going to outweigh my feelings on cheating and hurting people.

I don't know - guys do it all the time. What are they thinking about?

If it was an OPEN relationship - do you still want to cheat?

Never been in one of those...
IMHO, open relationships mean lack of emotional intimacy.


I mean.. How can you be okay with your husband/boyfriend fucking other people?

You would be offended if he had sex with you and then the next night met a chick and fucked her. Like Wtf dude.. Am I not satisfying you?

Unless you honestly don't give a fuck. But then its not really a relationship.
 

Yessica...

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IMHO, open relationships mean lack of emotional intimacy.


I mean.. How can you be okay with your husband/boyfriend fucking other people?

You would be offended if he had sex with you and then the next night met a chick and fucked her. Like Wtf dude.. Am I not satisfying you?

Unless you honestly don't give a fuck. But then its not really a relationship.
I feel the same way.

I don't wanna share my boyf. Not now. And I'd like to say - not ever.

But forever...is an awfully long time...
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charface

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Semi open relationships can work well. I have no urge to runn off and niether does she but as long as we both play together with a third no biggy.
been together like 22-25 yrs?
I can never remember.
anyway it is not for everyone. In fact it goes wrong for lots of poor horney souls.
I think were about over it but you never know.
 

giggles26

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Semi open relationships can work well. I have no urge to runn off and niether does she but as long as we both play together with a third no biggy.
been together like 22-25 yrs?
I can never remember.
anyway it is not for everyone. In fact it goes wrong for lots of poor horney souls.
I think were about over it but you never know.
Exactly if you play together it's cool. Like mff. Omg yea.

My girl is bi so yea know ;)
 

giggles26

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...fuck you too!

I just told an amazing story!
I wasn't meaning your story was boring.

You remember what riu used to be like with everyone like bear and carna and 420,barn buster,Clayton, c2g and Sunni. And there is so so many more.

This place used to be the cats meow now it's just like the same thing over and over. I feel like each week is déjà vu. Sure there's still good people here but not what it used to be...

I miss you guys. It was awesome to get to know you guys and thanks for always welcoming me.
 

Dyna Ryda

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I wasn't meaning your story was boring.

You remember what riu used to be like with everyone like bear and carna and 420,barn buster,Clayton, c2g and Sunni. And there is so so many more.

This place used to be the cats meow now it's just like the same thing over and over. I feel like each week is déjà vu. Sure there's still good people here but not what it used to be...

I miss you guys. It was awesome to get to know you guys and thanks for always welcoming me.
we've been here the same amount of time. I remember those guys too but I didn't post in tnt much back then. I didn't have time to keep up back then. But anyways, I'm here now and we got some really weird new people......not sure where I'm going with this post.....are you a dever donkeys fans?
 
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