Kinky Couples Fun...Voyeur, Exhibitionism, and ?????

Metasynth

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So, let me start out with a story. My grandfather, RIP, was one of the true last bohemians. As a matter of fact, the old kook died in his 90's nudist hot tubbing with women half his age...Shag carpet, pillow rooms, and belonged to a nudist colony.

More like a country club for nudists...Acres of shaded lawn, pools, hot tubs, saunas. tennis and volleyball courts, complete with a clubhouse and live-in employees. Yeah. Like that.

And I used to go until my early teens as well. Never anything sexual about it, just an excuse to go to the pool really. But my grandfather, and his crazy Hungarian family and friends were notorious for these parties...

Anyway...Flash forward almost 2 decades...I'm a pretty normal dude, but lately have been having these fantasies about my lady and I having sex in front of another couple, who is also engaged in their own play. My girlfriend has had a threesome in the past once, and I know she's open to some bi-play...

Shit...I don't even know where I'm going with this thread...Well, we're going to Vegas, and she's on board with the idea of trying to find a stoner couple that we totally click with. Definite chemistry is a must, it has to be a couple that we just genuinely want to hang out with.

Not looking to swap, but definitely looking to see and be seen....A journey into exhibitionism...We've been together for 5 years, and are totally comfortable with each other...Never any trust or jealousy issues...Just looking to try something new...

Anyone else? Or are we just freaks??
 

tyler.durden

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Hey, Metasynth! Good to see you here, it's been a while. If you're not looking to swap, it has the potential to be a really fun experience. My second wife was quite the exhibitionist, and had the idea to go to Hedonism II in Jamaica for our honeymoon. It was quite a trip, and it was exciting and interesting to see people having sex just about everywhere in the resort. It was more exciting than I thought it would be to be watched having sex, I had to get warmed up the first couple of times with a public BJ from my new bride before I was ready to go. We met a cool couple that were real stoners (pretty much everyone was, as they sold great weed right on the beach while security just looked the other way), and hung out with them most of the time. I remember getting drinks for our ladies with the couple's husband which turned into an impromptu BJ contest that our wives set up when we got back to them with the drinks. I guess they won since my new buddy was the first to pop. I've been in threesomes and foursomes in the past where we did trade off, and although they were initially exciting, they all ended badly. Good luck, and please report back with the outcome ;)
 

Padawanbater2

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Hey, Metasynth! Good to see you here, it's been a while. If you're not looking to swap, it has the potential to be a really fun experience. My second wife was quite the exhibitionist, and had the idea to go to Hedonism II in Jamaica for our honeymoon. It was quite a trip, and it was exciting and interesting to see people having sex just about everywhere in the resort. It was more exciting than I thought it would be to be watched having sex, I had to get warmed up the first couple of times with a public BJ from my new bride before I was ready to go. We met a cool couple that were real stoners (pretty much everyone was, as they sold great weed right on the beach while security just looked the other way), and hung out with them most of the time. I remember getting drinks for our ladies with the couple's husband which turned into an impromptu BJ contest that our wives set up when we got back to them with the drinks. I guess they won since my new buddy was the first to pop. I've been in threesomes and foursomes in the past where we did trade off, and although they were initially exciting, they all ended badly. Good luck, and please report back with the outcome ;)
Tell more stories bro!
 

charface

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I have been fortunate enough to be just enough psychopath to talk many people into doing many things they already wanted to do but were poor starters.
Not going to bother with stories but I have to say the best has been sober.
Again I have been all fucked up and disinhibited on all manner of shit but facing all that reality while completly aware really adds another level of rush.
 

sunni

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Hey, Metasynth! Good to see you here, it's been a while. If you're not looking to swap, it has the potential to be a really fun experience. My second wife was quite the exhibitionist, and had the idea to go to Hedonism II in Jamaica for our honeymoon. It was quite a trip, and it was exciting and interesting to see people having sex just about everywhere in the resort. It was more exciting than I thought it would be to be watched having sex, I had to get warmed up the first couple of times with a public BJ from my new bride before I was ready to go. We met a cool couple that were real stoners (pretty much everyone was, as they sold great weed right on the beach while security just looked the other way), and hung out with them most of the time. I remember getting drinks for our ladies with the couple's husband which turned into an impromptu BJ contest that our wives set up when we got back to them with the drinks. I guess they won since my new buddy was the first to pop. I've been in threesomes and foursomes in the past where we did trade off, and although they were initially exciting, they all ended badly. Good luck, and please report back with the outcome ;)
i thought you were gay?

maybve im thinking of someone else lol
 

sunni

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no judge tho i hope it happens for you guys, if thats what you want man go for it , !!!!
 

Metasynth

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no judge tho i hope it happens for you guys, if thats what you want man go for it , !!!!
Well, I dunno WHAT we want...I want her to be happy...Happy wife(gf in my case), happy life, right?

She liked the diamond necklace and matching earrings...

Maybe in vegas, a pearl necklace? Ooooohh...ZING! I couldn't resist....lol


I'm a super shy guy for the most part, and I don't wanna swap juices or partners with anyone else, cause I'm deathly paranoid of STD's and sickness..lol...Just prefer to stay clean, ya know? SO this all seems very out of character for me.
 

sunni

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Well, I dunno WHAT we want...I want her to be happy...Happy wife(gf in my case), happy life, right?

She liked the diamond necklace and matching earrings...

Maybe in vegas, a pearl necklace? Ooooohh...ZING! I couldn't resist....lol


I'm a super shy guy for the most part, and I don't wanna swap juices or partners with anyone else, cause I'm deathly paranoid of STD's and sickness..lol...Just prefer to stay clean, ya know? SO this all seems very out of character for me.
i think theres ahuge stigma, alot of people are seriously actually clean...ya know , if YOURE uncomfortable with it, maybe go to a classy strip club get some dances together, than go home just YOU AND HER, that could be an alternative, she could buy some "las vegas" outfits and dance for you ina skwanky hotel room
 

Metasynth

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i think theres ahuge stigma, alot of people are seriously actually clean...ya know , if YOURE uncomfortable with it, maybe go to a classy strip club get some dances together, than go home just YOU AND HER, that could be an alternative, she could buy some "las vegas" outfits and dance for you ina skwanky hotel room
Haha...she has vegas outfits...and I don't really wanna go to a strip joint...Half those girls are emotionally broken, and they're ALL in it for the money. We'd rather be around people who have a mutual attraction to us, if something were to happen. I have no expectations about this trip. What happens happens, and if that means nothing happens, then so be it. She's way more outgoing than I am...I just stay home and grow the weed...lol

I HAVE been looking for different things to do while we're out there. We usually just hang around the casino or hotel room, but I wouldn't mind getting out and about, especially considering we'll be there over halloween...

Our costumes...Except the wig we got is black and red, not just red. I haven't dressed up in probably 15 years....haha. And i've NEVER bought a costume before...

 

Hookabelly

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Haha...she has vegas outfits...and I don't really wanna go to a strip joint...Half those girls are emotionally broken, and they're ALL in it for the money. We'd rather be around people who have a mutual attraction to us, if something were to happen. I have no expectations about this trip. What happens happens, and if that means nothing happens, then so be it. She's way more outgoing than I am...I just stay home and grow the weed...lol

I HAVE been looking for different things to do while we're out there. We usually just hang around the casino or hotel room, but I wouldn't mind getting out and about, especially considering we'll be there over halloween...

Our costumes...Except the wig we got is black and red, not just red. I haven't dressed up in probably 15 years....haha. And i've NEVER bought a costume before...

I like that costume!! especially her stockings and shoes!!! vavoom!
Never hurts to give it another try.
Listen to you LOL
 

BustinScales510

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Stuff like that can be fun as long youve both communicated what youre ok with and trust and respect each other going into it.
5 years is a good amount of time too, trying out adventurous stuff before you really know someone can get a little dicey, but it sounds like you have a good foundation.
 
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