Yeah, nothing happens unless we're both comfortable with it...Like I said before, I have o expectations, other than to have a good time in Vegas for a week during Halloween. 5 Years, living together for at least 3...No jealousy or trust issues between us. We have nothing to hide from each other.
Once again, we're not looking to get it on with anyone else...We're not really looking for too much really. It'd be cool to meet a couple who smokes as much weed as we do, and just have other people to hang out with in Vegas, even if strictly platonic.
you can really do whatever you want at these sex clubs from what i hear. you don't have to get it on with anyone else but your spouse, you can arrange whatever the fuck you want. it's like an actual club, but with sex everywhere. one is owned by ron jeremy or something.
I'm just not so sure that's our cup of tea. I think we're not looking to meet a couple to hook up with...I think we genuinely want to click with these people, and make some new friends...If the possibility for more lies there, then cool, if not, then cool...Gotta have chemistry. We're not looking for a strictly exhibitionist experience, we wanna feel comfortable around the people we're hanging with.
There's a difference between planning/build up, and knowing what we're looking for. Yes, if the stars align just right, something might happen...But we're not expecting it to, and we won't be bummed when it doesn't work out. You seem pretty negative about the whole situation to begin with anyway.....
ME?? Sorry, don't mean to sound that way. I just meant that when a person has an idea then lots of folks chime in, then it puts pressure on the person to go through w/ it. No dis, meant Meta.
No, I gotcha...My bad.ME?? Sorry, don't mean to sound that way. I just meant that when a person has an idea then lots of folks chime in, then it puts pressure on the person to go through w/ it. No dis, meant Meta.
I was the one who said vegas sounds like a blast on Halloween and Liked your costumes BTW
Just curious, did the introduction of swinging or voyeurism or exhibitionism contribute to the break up?Yeah, I dunno why. Lol.
We never did any swinging or voyeurism or exhibitionism. We broke up and had a child together, in that order. We are co-parenting and my daughter is the best thing that could have come from that almost ten year relationship.
Yup, @ttystikk , zombie boner thread indeed.
Lol no, we never did anything. It was symptomatic of an already failing intimacy.
