call her from your cell and tell her your really far away, like ehm i dunno... something that takes like 2 hours to get to, how bout xou tell her your in zurich then the cops will go there
she might show up at the house to let the pigs in. even if you're still home, big mess. I would kiss ass and make up. then get rid of the plants and any evidence when you know it's safe to move it, then get away from the (sorry) psycho. once you're in a better position, start a fresh grow and it will all be worth it.