Pay it Forward

[curious2garden]

You are uninformed at best. I met this man personally less than a week after he was told he was going to die. Fighting with flat screen heroes takes away from the fight he is in right now this and every second for his life. The negative energy generated for whatever selfish reasons detracts from his ability and focus. I am terribly sorry for whatever character flaws that allow you to feel it is sport or therapeutic to victims to make them punching bags. Do you make jokes to rape victims to toughen them up too?

@CaretakerDad
Nope I made jokes about neuro gorks, that was my field, but I'm sure if I'd played the game at a lesser acuity level I would have. Unfortunately the only time I could make fun of a rape victim was if they had an incidental GSW to the head. But trust me we joked and we laughed or we cried and died.

Here ya go babe. You gotta be cruel to be kind in my field we healed with knives, air drills and gigli saws.

 

[chuck estevez]

I read back to see how this started, This is what I found.

Yo pinboy?? what problem do you have? I want no pass from you. I am in a fight for my life. Are you trying to help me?? I thought not. Cancer or not ..bring it on stupid..come on.

This wasn't a 1 sided troll. This dude asked for it, and when it settled down, He even came back and restarted it up again.

 

[curious2garden]

I read back to see how this started, This is what I found.



This wasn't a 1 sided troll. This dude asked for it, and when it settled down, He even came back and restarted it up again.

Yeah he's trying to exorcise his rage. Wanna see rage, watch me in action see my post above. I'm angry as well for similar reasons.Sooner than I planned. I had hoped so many things but it ain't gonna be.

TMI redacted, thanks for understanding.

Sorry, that's how I knew it was rage and I'll leave my strike back at you as illustrative of this post.

Gotta run times wastin' and....

 

[CaretakerDad]

Well then I believe it might just be time for me to take a break from RIU. Enjoy fucking with sick people and pissing off folks who put a great deal of their heart and time into helping others. Not really much else to say.

 

[no clue]

I read back to see how this started, This is what I found.



This wasn't a 1 sided troll. This dude asked for it, and when it settled down, He even came back and restarted it up again.

No chuck I didn't ask for anything. You understand this thread is called: Pay it Forward. This is a noble thing. Stop so maybe sick folks and people that want to help them can do something positive. If what I said was trolling in your world then I humbly apologize..and I am really sorry that I somehow sidetracked this thread..I have not been myself and that is not a plea for pity. Fuck if you're ever in my place you get all kinds of pity. It is neither rewarding nor fun. I never expected this place to be some kind of haven. I have been surprised by the lack of human decency.

 

[chuck estevez]

No chuck I didn't ask for anything. You understand this thread is called: Pay it Forward. This is a noble thing. Stop so maybe sick folks and people that want to help them can do something positive. If what I said was trolling in your world then I humbly apologize..and I am really sorry that I somehow sidetracked this thread..I have not been myself and that is not a plea for pity. Fuck if you're ever in my place you get all kinds of pity. It is neither rewarding nor fun. I never expected this place to be some kind of haven. I have been surprised by the lack of human decency.

i gave you my answer in pm, But I still believe you asked for it more than once. Was it right for him to do it, probably not. I just called it as I saw it. Again. sorry about your situation.

 

[no clue]

Thanks for jumping in with your thoughtful comments

 

[GreatwhiteNorth]

To try and get the thread back on track I will say that I have been unable to contact Scooby for several months now.
I sent a letter to his US based business & hopefully will hear from him soon.
He just seems to have dropped off the face of the earth.

 

[fumble]

hoping all is well with him

 

[SOMEBEECH]

@CaretakerDad
I watched as this went down last night. I'd just like to mention these 5 stages of the grieving process:
(1) Denial,
(2) Anger,
(3) Bargaining,
(4) Grief
(5) Acceptance

He needed a punching bag and last night it was Pin Worm. It was a service. I almost dropped in and swung for the fences with him a time or two myself. He/she needed it. It's better to exorcise that emotion here than with your family who is having to face the possible loss of you and there's the ambivalence about offending the support network you must have. The realization of this dependency alone creates massive anger in most men and some women.

Pin worm provided a service here last night. I would have gotten much more personal with the guy. Pin handled it fairly evenly. Anyway if you're interested I highly recommend Elisabeth Kubler Ross's work.

You seem like a wonderful caring guy and I appreciate exactly where your concern and indignation came from. That's why I tried to explain, not just the defense of the worm.

Bravo well said,annie.

 

[SOMEBEECH]

Bravo well said,annie.

I was pissed @ the world,and everyone on the planet.
Hopefully tings will work out and you will be ok,stranger things have happened.
Gl.
Ever need a shoulder... shoot me a message.I have been there,and its nothing that you wanna do
Without support,and friends.

 

[SOMEBEECH]

To try and get the thread back on track I will say that I have been unable to contact Scooby for several months now.
I sent a letter to his US based business & hopefully will hear from him soon.
He just seems to have dropped off the face of the earth.

Let's hope not GWN,dropped off the Earth,that is.
And to all a G-Night!
I'm Outeey.

 

[GreatwhiteNorth]

Let's hope not GWN,dropped off the Earth,that is.
And to all a G-Night!
I'm Outeey.

Lots of information has surfaced in the last couple of days, but it all is pointing to Scoob dying in an automobile accident in June.

Fuck!

 

[cannabineer]

Damn, GWN! I am truly sorry to hear that.
He and I had a scrape but by no means would I wish him ill.

 

[SOMEBEECH]

Lots of information has surfaced in the last couple of days, but it all is pointing to Scoob dying in an automobile accident in June.

Fuck!

NO, @GWN sry bro.....

 

[curious2garden]

Lots of information has surfaced in the last couple of days, but it all is pointing to Scoob dying in an automobile accident in June.

Fuck!

I hope you are wrong. I was worried about incarceration.

Damn, GWN! I am truly sorry to hear that.
He and I had a scrape but by no means would I wish him ill.

For the most part I think we all wish each other well around here no matter the hyperbole we may at times engage in.

 

[sunni]

im concerned at who exactly is using his account....

 

[curious2garden]

im concerned at who exactly is using his account....

Good thinking.

 

[sunni]

Good thinking.

from what i can tell they have made some significant changes to his profile, like from public to private but that the IP address is still the same. so whomever is using his account is from his general area location, it is possible they may be using his mobile?
however someone has and is on his account after his death,

 

[curious2garden]

from what i can tell they have made some significant changes to his profile, like from public to private but that the IP address is still the same. so whomever is using his account is from his general area location, it is possible they may be using his mobile?
however someone has and is on his account after his death,

Could it be family, or someone, cleaning up his affairs? I am speculating. I hope this is wrong and he is still alive. His poor mother, I can not imagine the depth of her grief.